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Feeling lower than a worms belly!
- Thread starter Pink_Glitter
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Ren Koutaisou
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No need to apologize. You haven't done anything wrong.
sleepysparrow
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Why do you have to give your animals away? That's terrible.
I know how you feel Paula, my family always gangs up on me, it's been going on since I was a teenager which is why I left home at 18. If they're really making you feel bad you should get away if you can. You're an amazing person and you don't deserve all that nonsense. I hope things get better soon. *hugs*
I know how you feel Paula, my family always gangs up on me, it's been going on since I was a teenager which is why I left home at 18. If they're really making you feel bad you should get away if you can. You're an amazing person and you don't deserve all that nonsense. I hope things get better soon. *hugs*
Ah, sorry to hear you're not feeling well. Try and remember that you are your own person, and if your family tries to tell you to do something you don't want to do, or make you feel guilty for doing what you feel is right for you, then don't listen and carry on doing what feels right for you and what makes you happy. They'll just have to accept that you are you. Family don't have the right to impose there will in a negative way just because they're related. What works for someone might not work for someone else, and you're the only one who knows what works for you.
Why do you have to give you're animals away?
Hope you feel better soon.
Why do you have to give you're animals away?
Hope you feel better soon.
BlackKids
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I'm unsure of your relationship with your family but It sounds like maybe your mother is jealous that you've been spending less time with her. Its obvious that your family is important as you came back the next day to support her/them. Hopefully you can have a heart to heart and set things straight. 
As for getting rid of your animals. It sucks but they are alot of responsibility. Just make sure they go to a great home,it will put your mind at ease and then you can enjoy your freedom lol.
I know they break your heart. I found a baby bird today and felt gutted that its properly going to die ::
As for getting rid of your animals. It sucks but they are alot of responsibility. Just make sure they go to a great home,it will put your mind at ease and then you can enjoy your freedom lol.
I know they break your heart. I found a baby bird today and felt gutted that its properly going to die :
:It helps to get things off your chest and talk about them, no need to apologise.
Yeah, you're right there. Be you, and they can either accept that, or not accept it, but if they don't, its their problem and their loss.
And they should see that just because you're not living with them doesn't mean you can't still have a good connection and see each other if you want to. Most people move out from home at some point. So its them that would need to change their outlook, not you.
I can imagine that comment from your mum must have hurt your feelings. You don't deserve that for going to visit her. And sorry about the animals, I can understand that must be very sad for you. Is she not prepared to discuss it and come to another arrangement? If not I would just try my best to accept it and not dwell on it too much in my head, as that will make you feel worse. Although I know that must be very hard.
Yeah, you're right there. Be you, and they can either accept that, or not accept it, but if they don't, its their problem and their loss.
And they should see that just because you're not living with them doesn't mean you can't still have a good connection and see each other if you want to. Most people move out from home at some point. So its them that would need to change their outlook, not you.
I can imagine that comment from your mum must have hurt your feelings. You don't deserve that for going to visit her. And sorry about the animals, I can understand that must be very sad for you. Is she not prepared to discuss it and come to another arrangement? If not I would just try my best to accept it and not dwell on it too much in my head, as that will make you feel worse. Although I know that must be very hard.
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