richkid
Well-known member
hey haven't been on this web site for ages, didn't fell the need to feeling ok about myself just not amazing.
Does anyone have this wierd ironic fear that thier lack of confidence may be due to the fact they don't want to come across too confident. I sometimes fell confident but lapse in different situations, i think its cause it's easy to be thought of as quite than been shot down in social situations where you could be targeted, as being cocky.
I sometimes feel that being too comfortable being painfully shy stops me becoming more confident in myself because its easier that way and agian i'm scared of how people will react to that.
not sure if that makes sense, basically don't wqant to be quite and don't want to be over confident. which i guess makes me overally anxious.
Does anyone have this wierd ironic fear that thier lack of confidence may be due to the fact they don't want to come across too confident. I sometimes fell confident but lapse in different situations, i think its cause it's easy to be thought of as quite than been shot down in social situations where you could be targeted, as being cocky.
I sometimes feel that being too comfortable being painfully shy stops me becoming more confident in myself because its easier that way and agian i'm scared of how people will react to that.
not sure if that makes sense, basically don't wqant to be quite and don't want to be over confident. which i guess makes me overally anxious.