Fear

[Gap]

Would you please write your biggest fear in a short sentence ( only one per head , please ) ? And then also a short sentence what you think you shoud do to face it or win it to ?

 

[takethislife]

Neverending pain. I think it is everyones fear really.

 

[Gap]

Would you be more specific please , cause quite difficult to face neverending pain.

 

[Section_31]

Fear of being alone, losing everyone i care about.

Not much can be done to beat it. Im the youngest male in my family. Eventually everyone i know WILL die before me, assuming of course i dont have any kind of accident or get murdered.

The only logical course of action is to ensure i can children, to prevent exactly this. But therin lies the paradox as i dont want children. Thus my only course of action left is to accept and face reality.

 

[Gap]

Thank you for you sharing . Do you mind if i ask you how old are you and why don't you want children ?

 

[etssurvivor]

Fear of being alone, losing everyone i care about.

Not much can be done to beat it. Im the youngest male in my family. Eventually everyone i know WILL die before me, assuming of course i dont have any kind of accident or get murdered.

The only logical course of action is to ensure i can children, to prevent exactly this. But therin lies the paradox as i dont want children. Thus my only course of action left is to accept and face reality.

This is very well put. I have that same fear being the youngest of the family. I'm about to lose my final grandparent and just lost our family dog. Weird to think the next in line is my mother and father. Then my older brothers then me. Hard to accept the fact that I will be left here without any of them, alone.

For me, I am lucky to have a small, great set of 5 friends. People I've had great friendships with since about the age of 6. This helps me face the fact that they will not be there someday if we die sequentially. Friends who are the same age as I am.

 

[Gap]

I didn't get it exactly ' are yours fears are to be alone or to lose the ones who you care for ?
Because for me one of you is a real and the other is a poison . Cause you can't live if you think you're gonna lose your family , that is life , you can't do anything , so that's why i call it a poison but fear to be left alone because you have nobody it's a real one for me .