hi all,
havent been on here for ages but i have just gone back on facebook for the first time in about 3 years and its making me anxious. I need some advice.
Basically I set my facebook up in the first year of UNI, I made loads of friends and it was great. Then in 3rd year my social phobia for some reason became full blown and I drifted from my friends and became more isolated. mainly because my social phobia caused me to shut down and they began to pick on me. I know they did not understand what I was going through but I could not tell them and it just got worse and worse.
After Uni I did not contact them or go on facebook for fear of reading what they would say about me and the few years after Uni I didnt really make any friends or have any life.
I recently started a new job and eventually met some people to socialise with. They have been encouraging me to go on facebook after i told them that I havent been on for years.
I have just added them and it will be clear that I havent been on for years which is fine but I am worried that when I start using it regularly that they will see that I dont talk to anyone else bar them on there and they will realise I dont have any other friends.
Should I delete my facebook account? or do you think I am worrying over nothing?
havent been on here for ages but i have just gone back on facebook for the first time in about 3 years and its making me anxious. I need some advice.
Basically I set my facebook up in the first year of UNI, I made loads of friends and it was great. Then in 3rd year my social phobia for some reason became full blown and I drifted from my friends and became more isolated. mainly because my social phobia caused me to shut down and they began to pick on me. I know they did not understand what I was going through but I could not tell them and it just got worse and worse.
After Uni I did not contact them or go on facebook for fear of reading what they would say about me and the few years after Uni I didnt really make any friends or have any life.
I recently started a new job and eventually met some people to socialise with. They have been encouraging me to go on facebook after i told them that I havent been on for years.
I have just added them and it will be clear that I havent been on for years which is fine but I am worried that when I start using it regularly that they will see that I dont talk to anyone else bar them on there and they will realise I dont have any other friends.
Should I delete my facebook account? or do you think I am worrying over nothing?
