InTheShadows
Member
I dunno if this should be here or in Shyness but anyway here goes..
OK, so basically I just can't talk to people, it's quite annoying. I'm fine when i'm around people I know such as family but if I have to talk to anyone outside these four walls I find it very hard to loosen up and talk to people with the same confidence that i do to family. I always feel like I come across like a little mousey type creature and that everyone judges me negativley. I can only bring myself talk to people when it's absolutley unavoidable, if I see someone that I think is cool or a cute girl that I'd like to get to know or something I just can't bring myself to start a conversation because i get feelings that I'll get a negative reaction or that i'd be intruding. It even feels akward walking past people in the streets because I feel like they are judging me negativley so I become very self aware of facial expressions and how I'm walking because I feel I might end up looking like a fool and end up tripping over or bump into someone.
I am currently not working or anything and i don't go out much. I want to get a job soon just because I want the money but I always feel akward having to interact with people and I can never make friends. I just want a normal life and to feel at ease with other people and be myself but i can't. Please give me some advice?
It must be said that i don't really have any friends because of the reasons I just mentioned, I find it impossible to make them. Through my eyes, it just can't be done unless someone approaches me. I really need some advice on this, this is really getting to me now
OK, so basically I just can't talk to people, it's quite annoying. I'm fine when i'm around people I know such as family but if I have to talk to anyone outside these four walls I find it very hard to loosen up and talk to people with the same confidence that i do to family. I always feel like I come across like a little mousey type creature and that everyone judges me negativley. I can only bring myself talk to people when it's absolutley unavoidable, if I see someone that I think is cool or a cute girl that I'd like to get to know or something I just can't bring myself to start a conversation because i get feelings that I'll get a negative reaction or that i'd be intruding. It even feels akward walking past people in the streets because I feel like they are judging me negativley so I become very self aware of facial expressions and how I'm walking because I feel I might end up looking like a fool and end up tripping over or bump into someone.
I am currently not working or anything and i don't go out much. I want to get a job soon just because I want the money but I always feel akward having to interact with people and I can never make friends. I just want a normal life and to feel at ease with other people and be myself but i can't. Please give me some advice?
It must be said that i don't really have any friends because of the reasons I just mentioned, I find it impossible to make them. Through my eyes, it just can't be done unless someone approaches me. I really need some advice on this, this is really getting to me now
