Embarassed myself

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whattodo1

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With my social anxiety it is hard for me to make friends. But recently I have met a new friend. I really want this friendship to work out...
We went out drinking and I got too drunk to the point that I was embarassing.. No one else was even that drunk except me! I was just being a stupid drunk!
I texted her later that night, she went home and I went out.. But she hasnt wrote back.. And I'm afraid I blew it now.. I dunno what to do, it makes me really sad, its all I can think about now
 
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nicole1

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Just apologize for your behavior, you were nervous. Like I always say, if she doesn't respond or understand, that's her problem. This happens to some people. And it's not the end of the world, though I know it hurts sometimes when you get ignored for your own actions...
 
dottie

dottie

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stupid drunk? unheard of! jk i feel you. it's so embarrassing losing control and making mistakes in front of others. just learn your limits (in terms of alcohol) and don't' cross them again. if they are a true friend they will forgive you.
 
Death Rider

Death Rider

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Meeting people is based on first impressions. I doubt that you shook her hand whilst completely wasted thus she could make a good first one (it's like love at first sight). You will have plenty of chances to talk.
In your shoes, I would invite the person to meet me at a place where there is 0% of a chance to find alcohol. This will eliminate the possibility of fear :)
 
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First impressions are rarely lasting, but that said, people make mistakes. You will never meet a person that will fail to do something stupid in your eyes. Just apologize and don't do it again! There's nothing more you can or should do. The ball is in her court, but I would be very surprised if she discarded you over this. That would be considered very odd by most people. Unless you were an angry drunk, in which case that would be considered a red flag.
 
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whattodo1

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thanks everyone, i have been avoiding her but now got the courage to finally apologize.. hope it will go well
 
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