veggielover
Well-known member
I must have some retarded social anxiety a.k.a coward syndrome. I can't just go out one night of my life without having any worries. I worry that I won't know anyone at a party and that I will be "that girl" that everyone stares at like who is she? Even though I have a friend to go to the party with and I would be meeting a friend there....what the helllll. It's one night out of my life and it will be over with tomorrow. It's somewhere to have a good time and socialize with people, yet I can't get myself to do it. I hate this. I'm all ready to go out and since it's not exactly what I've expected it to be, I don't want to go anymore. I suck. What am I supposed to do in this situation? Just never go out another night in my life? God damn, why am I like this? I wonder what my friends think of me. They probably think I'm not even good enough to want to invite to a party. I'm trying to be this party girl, but its so not me. I love getting drunk, but that's the only thing I enjoy about parties. I like drunken conversations because I won't fully remember them the next day nor care what I'm talking about at the moment. I can't be sober and social. Not around people I don't know well. This ***** so bad. I'm trying to get out there and hang out more with my friends and let them get to know me better, but of course I just back out like a COWARD. I'm such a coward. I would love to get some kind of confidence medicine, do they make that? I'm over being like this, so over it. This is what makes all my relationships fail. I suck so bad. I want to be ok, but it's just not going to happen. I shouldn't say that. I want to be normal. How do I do it????? It's not like I never go out to parties, but I just get so intimidated sometimes, like tonight. And I psyche myself out thinking I'm going to have a horrible time. Who am I? Who do I think I am? I need to get out of here. I lost this amazing guy I think because of my social anxiety. It's nights like these that make me wonder how I would be feeling if I were on medication.