I really despise having my picture taken. The worst is when people sneak and take pictures of you. I find that an extreme invasion of my personal space. My husband has an uncle who likes to do that kind of crap at family gatherings (which I hate anyway). Usually I am a person who never speaks up on my own behalf, but I really made it clear after the last time that I DON'T allow myself to be photographed. Period. No exceptions. I didn't used to be so adamant about it, and when my son was small I even voluntarily posed for pictures with him. But now, it really embarrasses me to see pictures of myself. I think "Oh God, is that how people see me? I look terrible!" It's not that I'm incredibly ugly or obese or whatever. I just don't like the idea anymore of people having that power over me, to be able to look at pictures of me, and possibly make derogatory comments about me. I guess that's weird and paranoid.