Believe it or not, I actually told this guy about my anxiety issues, and that if I start to be too much, that he should just be honest and tell me to back off. He insisted that we were all good and has treated me the same as always, with kindness & respect. Amazing.
Regarding my feelings for him...they haven't changed, nor has he displayed anything more than friendship. I think it reflects on me and my boredom with my homelife, which is a whole different issue.
thanks for all the help!