I think "criticizing" people is wrong, period. No one likes to be criticized, & it doesn't solve anything, anyway. Even if my SA would allow me to, I wouldn't do it.
I can't deal with confrontation, though... At all. Just knowing I have to confront, or talk to someone about something, causes me serious anxiety & panic attacks. I also can't stick up for myself. Because of my SA, people often think of me as rude &/or mean, because I don't talk & I'm so reserved. I've been called a b*tch & all kinds of other names because of it, & I never stick up for myself. It just causes panic, anxiety & for me to get really upset. I've even cried before lol. I'm just too sensitive.