Do people think of you as a goody good just because you have SA?

[sevenroses]

Do people think of you as a goody good just because you have SA? It's kind of annoying how people just assume your some goody good just because you're quiet. I get comments sometimes like "oh I can't believe he swore" etc. It's kind of annoying. Any of you guys experience the same thing?

 

[Insect]

All the time. I also sarcasticly get called a rebel when I do anything wrong.

 

[Johno]

Me too... I always try and be nice.... However being nice doesn't always work.....

 

[SilverFire]

No, usually people think I'm cold and aloof, like I'm too good for them. When I tell them that I don't bear them any animosity and that I'm just in my head most of the time, they are usually surprised. I guess I've mastered the "stay away" vibe and people think that I'm just waiting to whip out a shotgun on them or something.

 

[vj288]

Well, I always got pinned as a nice guy (as far as I know), but I actually think I am, or try to be, a nice guy. So you can blame me for the stereotype if you want, sorry.

 

[BlackPuma]

People don't disrespect me in general. It's because apparently I'm very good at faking confidence. People terrify me, but I don't doubt for a second when it comes to putting them back in their place when they push too far. Disrespect and condescending behavior is unacceptable to me.

A simple, calm but very serious ''What's that supposed to mean?'' usually does the job quite sufficiently. They see me more as ''responsible'' then a ''Goody good''. Which is fine by me, really. ;3

 

[SNB1501]

I do think people think im a goody two shoes but honestly I am but as well as that I am quiet and more introvertive than others in my school but I have my moments where I can talk openly to another person it depends if I have something in common with them or I have something to say but lately Ive been feeling a bit of SA

 

[lunarla]

I definitely think lotsa people think that of me. As well as being just distant and withdrawn in general. At least around most. Friends who've known me for a while know different. But that's also not to say that I'm some wild, rebellious person. But I'm certainly not "goody goody' like my demeanor may represent.

 

[missjesss]

people always think im a snob!

So funny we are either perceived as a nice person or a snob haha now that I know I have sa all my actions in high school make sense and I remember ppl having issues with me coz of the look on my face wen i walked by them they thought I was a bitch or a mole yet rlly I was worrying about ppl watching me as i walked by lol