Chronic insecurity

[recluse]

I honestly think that having a girlfriend would be a disaster for me, the reason is my chronic insecurity. I know that i would be jealous whenever she would talk to another guy and that i would be afraid of rejection.

 

[bleach]

If you're chronically insecure, you probably wont get a girl in the first place. No sense worrying about what you'll be like once you have her.

 

[moodygoo]

I'm similar and in a relationship. I'm ridiculously paranoid and jealous and always hurt over something silly. Its just a matter of controlling and hiding it.
Its still possible to find someone...
Would you turn an opportunity down because of this?

 

[SilentType]

I certainly wouldn't turn a female down, but I just fear the rejection of approaching one myself.

Peace

 

[recluse]

I'm similar and in a relationship. I'm ridiculously paranoid and jealous and always hurt over something silly. Its just a matter of controlling and hiding it.
Its still possible to find someone...
Would you turn an opportunity down because of this?

No i wouldn't, but i never get any oppurtunities and i am unable to go up to girls and start talking to them(like other guys do)

 

[Emma]

I always end up hurt, always....I spend most of my time being insecure and looking over my shoulder

 

[Johno]

Who the hell is Wayne Campbell? Enlighten me (us). I have heard of a Wayne Campbell that played for Richmond... LOL How sweet you are Emma. I have been double edited here. There was a Wayne Campbell that played for Richmond. That is why I was puzzled. This girl Emma likes to play Editor. I must say, what is wrong with mentioning a slang word such as fuck in a sentence. I think it just gives emotion or meaning to what you are saying. . It emphasizes what you mean. Sweet dreams Emma. Iam sure that there is a nice girl in there somewhere. Being from OZ helps.

 

[Emma]

you know, waynes world, waynes world, party on, excellent, woooo :lol:

 

[Danfalc22]

Ive got the most perfect girl a guy could ask for and im chronicaly insecure :? It is hard.. but you can controll it,you do have to think im just being insecure and not let the thought get out of controll.I get hurt by really silly little things sometimes when im poorly.. and they are pathetic things when i look back at em Being honest about some things really helps.. but still at the end of the day someone can reasure us about somthing till there blue in the face but we need to believe it ourselves.

Jelousy is a bad one.. i use to be really jelous about my gf speaking to other guys,i trusted her totaly yet i couldnt shake the feeling that i wasnt good enough.. i mean she is so beautifull in my eyes and perfect i would think she can have any guy she wants..what is she doing with me?I dont let it get to me now tho..because jelousy is one of the most destructive things in a relationship :? i still do get insecure yes..but you just have to let it go and kinda think..i cant predict the future.Enjoy what you do have instead of worrying constantly about loosing it.