Can someone please tell me..

steviegerrard489

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When you are in a bar talking to a woman, what are you supposed to say to them?!

I mean, I can dry up quite quicky but this generally depends upon who I'm talking to. If they are talkative it's not so bad.

But at other times the woman just looks at me with a blank face, waiting and waiting for me to say something. This is embarrassing and depressing (you quickly see any chances with the woman fading before your very eyes).

And while I sometimes ask dull stuff like "How was work today?" other guys seem to be able to talk about rubbish and keep the conversation going. Like last week this guy talked about moustaches for about 5 minutes to this girl.

All I can do is stand there desperately trying to think of something to say. It's horrible.
 

froghat

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Good question... In those situations I always stand there like a rock with nothing to say. Just a blank mind. Like you said, unless it's a real talkative girl I stink.
 

recluse

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Chat up lines are a deffinate no no! That's all i know sorry. To be honest i don't like the idea of meeting a girl in a bar espacially if i'm drunk, o'r she's drunk.
 
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