Infected_Malignity
Well-known member
I think I've finally figured out why shy people never have enemies (or an overabundance of friends). They avoid pain to such a degree that even if they're out and sociable/having a good time, all they ever do is play it safe (I'm even guilty of this). What I mean by that is never fully opening up to anyone because they're too afraid of being vulnerable. Or too afraid of showing their personality and getting stepped on.
So what's the answer to that equation? I think I've finally found it - welcoming the pain. Going towards it, knowing it hurts, but still pushing through anyway. Knowing that through boldness, you'll probably end up making a lot of both enemies and friends throughout it... and accepting it.
Friends and enemies are almost always packaged together (you can usually see proof in extremely bold individuals). As long as you can accept that, it should become easier to BOLD, BOLD, BOLD away!
So what's the answer to that equation? I think I've finally found it - welcoming the pain. Going towards it, knowing it hurts, but still pushing through anyway. Knowing that through boldness, you'll probably end up making a lot of both enemies and friends throughout it... and accepting it.
Friends and enemies are almost always packaged together (you can usually see proof in extremely bold individuals). As long as you can accept that, it should become easier to BOLD, BOLD, BOLD away!