yeah, i'm completely indecisive when it comes to movies and things like that. I do recognize though that even outgoing people get tired of making all the decisions, so I'll try to think real hard for stuff- like go to the park, the mall, coffee, restaurant, etc. I usually let others make the decision. I get nervous with playing music (like in the car) so I usually just say turn on whatever you want, or i'll just turn it to some popular music radio station... or just keep it off.
I try to remind myself that the people i hang around with aren't selfish egomaniacs- they don't actually want me to just do everything they want to do and have me be bored. So i try to give input when people ask... but yeah there's a lot of "idunno what you do want to do?" "idunno- what do you want to do?"
i'm not sure what the precentage is, but hanging out with people, there's usually a chunk of time spent figuring out what to do...
having sa it's hard to want to do anything! when people ask me what i want to do... there's the real answer- something depressed, and there's the superficial answer "Let's go get ice cream." my friends usually end up doing pretty much the same things...
And sometimes with things, I really don't care- Sometimes you just have to make up a preference.
oh yeah, and i have a very hard time myself inviting people to go and do things- because i have no clue what to do and i know that i can be incredibly boring- so i usually get scared to ask people to go and do stuff- i feel bad like im wasting their time.