dannyboy65
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Well I've been dating this girl for sometime now and I love her a lot. She has a little boy who is 3 years old and he never knew his father, cause he abused my girlfriend. So the other night she was reading him a book and he asked why some of the mommies in books and at daycare are boys. She told him that those weren't mommies that those were daddies and he say oh. She then said some kids only have one mommy, or one daddy, or a mommy and daddy. She then said but you are lucky that you only have mommy, and he said why. She said because you can choose whoever you want to be your daddy. He looked excited and said I can choose all on my own? She said yes. He then thought for a moment and he said he wants me to be his daddy and that she had to tell me that I'm his daddy now.
I have never been so happy because I love them both and the fact that he wants me to be in his life in that role means so much to me. I don't know if I'm creepy for wanting to be his father. But I'm so happy I mean so much to both of them. Does anyone have tips about this?
I have never been so happy because I love them both and the fact that he wants me to be in his life in that role means so much to me. I don't know if I'm creepy for wanting to be his father. But I'm so happy I mean so much to both of them. Does anyone have tips about this?