mienaino
Well-known member
I know I'm probably going to get a lot of flak for this, but...
I often hear about how people do things or do not do things "because" of social anxiety or the like. This is a misconception. Anxiety doesn't make you do anything. If you miss school, or if you don't have a job, or if you can't make eye contact, or what-have-you, it isn't "because" of anxiety, it's your own independent reaction to anxiety. It is your decision. There is nothing that strips you of your ability to recover more than your own inability to take responsibility for what actions are decisively, independently yours. If that's your frame of mind, then you're just waiting for someone or something else to take the anxiety away, which is not going to happen.
Anyway, this is just an open note on the subject, so digest it if and how you will.
I often hear about how people do things or do not do things "because" of social anxiety or the like. This is a misconception. Anxiety doesn't make you do anything. If you miss school, or if you don't have a job, or if you can't make eye contact, or what-have-you, it isn't "because" of anxiety, it's your own independent reaction to anxiety. It is your decision. There is nothing that strips you of your ability to recover more than your own inability to take responsibility for what actions are decisively, independently yours. If that's your frame of mind, then you're just waiting for someone or something else to take the anxiety away, which is not going to happen.
Anyway, this is just an open note on the subject, so digest it if and how you will.