Are any virgins this bad?...
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SocialRetahd
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Not yet.
But will be.
But will be.
Goofball
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I'm in the same boat at 27, but I'm not worried. I used to be real self conscience about it, but after being ragged on from the folks at work for a while now, my "social situation" doesn't even bother me anymore. I'm not interested in having a relationship and dont see that changing anytime soon
Goofball
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I haven't told'em anything 
They're just making that assumption because I always avoid conversations about relationships.
I normally work in room with another guy and girl. The girl is married and the guy is divorced, they each have kids. They're always talking about their relationships and I've always avoided getting involved in those conversations. A few months ago they were talking about their "first time" and then when they turned and asked me, instead of making up a story I just responded in a nasty tone "you dont know me well enough to be askin me that shit."
Thus began the "he's never had a girlfriend" and "he's a virgin" jokes they get pretty brutal sometimes, but i've got pretty good at ignoring them
They're just making that assumption because I always avoid conversations about relationships. I normally work in room with another guy and girl. The girl is married and the guy is divorced, they each have kids. They're always talking about their relationships and I've always avoided getting involved in those conversations. A few months ago they were talking about their "first time" and then when they turned and asked me, instead of making up a story I just responded in a nasty tone "you dont know me well enough to be askin me that shit."
Thus began the "he's never had a girlfriend" and "he's a virgin" jokes
they get pretty brutal sometimes, but i've got pretty good at ignoring them
Thelema
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It doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. Just be sure that when you get the chance to change that, that you take it. Don't be a man slut but you don't have to wait until marriage.
If you've never kissed anyone then work on that. Whore yourself out for kissing...theres no shame in it :lol:
If you've never kissed anyone then work on that. Whore yourself out for kissing...theres no shame in it :lol:
Goofball
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I think what leaves me open to the ridicule is the fact that I like to joke around a lot with people I know pretty well. Even though I never crack jokes about someones personal life, they apparently think it's fine to crack jokes about mine.
Lately I haven't been joking around as much at work since they started gettin so brutal.
Abalone
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I can relate... I'll be 30 in about a month and I've never kissed anyone...
Well, when I was a kid, a couple girls kissed me, and since I hadn't gone thru puberty yet I hated it. Once I actually developed an interest in females, they stopped making the first move. And since I now look and act so differently than I did when I was a kid, those old kisses give me no confidence that women would be interested in me today.
Well, when I was a kid, a couple girls kissed me, and since I hadn't gone thru puberty yet I hated it. Once I actually developed an interest in females, they stopped making the first move. And since I now look and act so differently than I did when I was a kid, those old kisses give me no confidence that women would be interested in me today.
fruitbat
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I'm nineteen and I've never kissed anyone or been in any sort of romantic relationship. I really hate being so inexperienced, and I'm sort of self-concious about it. But I know I can't even think about these sorts of relationships when I can't even manage to make friends...
I suppose things will be easier for me since I'm a girl, but it still worries me. I really want to fall in love, get married and all of that stuff, but it seems so out of reach when my anxiety keeps me from taking that first small step.
I suppose things will be easier for me since I'm a girl, but it still worries me. I really want to fall in love, get married and all of that stuff, but it seems so out of reach when my anxiety keeps me from taking that first small step.
recluse
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Goofball said:I haven't told'em anything
I normally work in room with another guy and girl. The girl is married and the guy is divorced, they each have kids. They're always talking about their relationships and I've always avoided getting involved in those conversations. A few months ago they were talking about their "first time" and then when they turned and asked me, instead of making up a story I just responded in a nasty tone "you dont know me well enough to be askin me that shit."
Thus began the "he's never had a girlfriend" and "he's a virgin" jokes
It's inapropiate to ask someone something like that! Older people should be mature and know better! You were right to be assertive with them, well done.
im_no_superman
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i have never been in a relationship or kissed anyone, to be honest i don't even think about it. What gets to me is this stereotype that because i am male i should be chasing women eyeing up every girl that passes me in the street.
When i see a girl i don't start thinking about getting her knickers off or what might be under her clothes, and i wouldn't want someone who just pity's me or looks good, if i was to be with someone it can only be a girl who actually understands me.
When i see a girl i don't start thinking about getting her knickers off or what might be under her clothes, and i wouldn't want someone who just pity's me or looks good, if i was to be with someone it can only be a girl who actually understands me.