My thoughts on this are that I make friends with people I dont really feel intimidated by. The people I see that I am REALLY compatible with like in my classes or wherever, I am too afriad to approach and I am never myself around people like that. But people I would never really think would be compatible, I am friends with. And thats probably why I dont really like them as much as I could...because i am not compatible really with them.
I am thankful to have my best friend who I can depend on as well as have fun with and be myself around. But shes going to college next year...so we'll see how much I get to see her.
And part of this "hating our friends" thing just has to do with ourselves. Besides the fact that we can't be ourselves around most people, if we dont LOVE ourselves, how can we be happy and make friends. No one wants to make friends with some one whos unfriendly or unapproachable. I know its hard with the situation we're in. Trust me, I face this everyday. But just think about that, and maybe it will be easier to find people you can be compatible with and yourself around