Demise, maybe he's still at the unsure stage.. a lot of people are very confused about thier sexuality when they are young. I think he is just figuring it out.
Commania, theres nothing to be ashamed about if your gay. Your no less of a person. As for the girly behaviour...so what, I'm a bit of a tom boy and sometimes I act very boyish. Don't change for anyone.
Where are you from anyway?