gustavofring
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This is kind of weird, but ever since I was a child, I used to imitate people from movies, etc.
I used to pretend I was Blackadder or some Disney villain. When I got in my teens I wanted to be Che Guevara. Well, not really being that character or person, but trying to emulate their personality in my own. The way they carry themself I guess. Always when I would watch movies, I would be impressed with a certain character, and take some of that with me.
As an adult, I find that I still look for qualities in others that I admire and want to desperately possess myself. Not necessarily from fictional characters anymore, but sometimes people in real life. It's kind of a sad childish quality to do and basically a testament to my lack of natural sense of "self".
I also find that when I am in the company of people I like, I always start talking like them, behaving like them. But when I am meeting people I absolutely don't have anything in common with, I tend to turn inwards and very reserved.
Can anyone relate?
Also as a sidenote, I think I don't really belong to anything. I can't fit myself into any existing stereotype or subculture or group in society. Maybe part of my loss of identity. I mean, I have belonged to groups and organisations and stuff in the past, but none of it has stuck with me. It's like I can't really choose to be anything. It's frustrating. Am I in a permanent existentional identity crisis?
I often wonder what drives "normal" people. Do their actions and behavior come naturally to them? Or are they actively trying to be perceived a certain way?
Sorry for the rambling, it's late, I can't sleep and all these things pop up in my brain.
I used to pretend I was Blackadder or some Disney villain. When I got in my teens I wanted to be Che Guevara. Well, not really being that character or person, but trying to emulate their personality in my own. The way they carry themself I guess. Always when I would watch movies, I would be impressed with a certain character, and take some of that with me.
As an adult, I find that I still look for qualities in others that I admire and want to desperately possess myself. Not necessarily from fictional characters anymore, but sometimes people in real life. It's kind of a sad childish quality to do and basically a testament to my lack of natural sense of "self".
I also find that when I am in the company of people I like, I always start talking like them, behaving like them. But when I am meeting people I absolutely don't have anything in common with, I tend to turn inwards and very reserved.
Can anyone relate?
Also as a sidenote, I think I don't really belong to anything. I can't fit myself into any existing stereotype or subculture or group in society. Maybe part of my loss of identity. I mean, I have belonged to groups and organisations and stuff in the past, but none of it has stuck with me. It's like I can't really choose to be anything. It's frustrating. Am I in a permanent existentional identity crisis?
I often wonder what drives "normal" people. Do their actions and behavior come naturally to them? Or are they actively trying to be perceived a certain way?
Sorry for the rambling, it's late, I can't sleep and all these things pop up in my brain.
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