littl3misstrange
Well-known member
I know there are a million posts on this forum having to do with that very issue, but I just have to get this out.
I'm an 18 year old girl with extreme SB & raging hormones. Which is a combination that many of you know can only lead to pain/frustration. I want the physical presense of a boyfriend so much, that my desire consumes me everyday, everywhere I go. I feel like breaking down or screaming whenever I see couples my age holding hands or kissing. I feel like, why them & not me? I can't even watch romantic movies/tv shows anymore without tumbling into a deep depression & crying until I can't cry anymore.
The only boy who has ever approached me, I had to turn down because he just wasn't my type. I wasn't physically or otherwise attracted to him. I'm so afraid that the only boys that will ever approach me will be unattractive. Because, it seems like every boy I find attractive, doesn't even know I exist, while every less-appealing guy out there seems to like me for whatever reason. I feel like if only the less-attractive guys think I'm pretty, than that means I'm not good enough to be considered beautiful by attractive guys, if that makes any sense to anyone. Either that, or guys just won't approach me at all.
I feel like I'm going to be alone the rest of my life. That I'll actually become a 40-year old virgin, than a 50-year old one, & so on. I simply can't take this anymore. I feel like I'm going to explode. I need love in my life to feel truly happy, & I can honestly say I've never been truly happy.
I'm such a sexual person, that sometimes I feel abnormal. I can't go a day without masturbating, or talking to someone on msn about sexual things...all of which, only fuel my desire more.
& it's not just the sex I crave, but the love. The love more than anything. If it was just sex without love, I wouldn't be happy at all.
People keep telling me to be patient. That it will happen. But they don't understand. I CAN'T wait any longer. I've been waiting all my life, & I've reached my breaking point.
& the worst part is, I don't know how to change my situation. I can't approach guys (or anyone, really), & even if a guy I liked approached me, I wouldn't know how to act or what to say at all. The only time my true self comes out is online, or when I'm around my dad. I've never been able to reveal myself completely, to someone. I just don't know how, & that fact is killing me.
I can't go on like this. I don't know what to do or where to turn.
I'm an 18 year old girl with extreme SB & raging hormones. Which is a combination that many of you know can only lead to pain/frustration. I want the physical presense of a boyfriend so much, that my desire consumes me everyday, everywhere I go. I feel like breaking down or screaming whenever I see couples my age holding hands or kissing. I feel like, why them & not me? I can't even watch romantic movies/tv shows anymore without tumbling into a deep depression & crying until I can't cry anymore.
The only boy who has ever approached me, I had to turn down because he just wasn't my type. I wasn't physically or otherwise attracted to him. I'm so afraid that the only boys that will ever approach me will be unattractive. Because, it seems like every boy I find attractive, doesn't even know I exist, while every less-appealing guy out there seems to like me for whatever reason. I feel like if only the less-attractive guys think I'm pretty, than that means I'm not good enough to be considered beautiful by attractive guys, if that makes any sense to anyone. Either that, or guys just won't approach me at all.
I feel like I'm going to be alone the rest of my life. That I'll actually become a 40-year old virgin, than a 50-year old one, & so on. I simply can't take this anymore. I feel like I'm going to explode. I need love in my life to feel truly happy, & I can honestly say I've never been truly happy.
I'm such a sexual person, that sometimes I feel abnormal. I can't go a day without masturbating, or talking to someone on msn about sexual things...all of which, only fuel my desire more.
& it's not just the sex I crave, but the love. The love more than anything. If it was just sex without love, I wouldn't be happy at all.
People keep telling me to be patient. That it will happen. But they don't understand. I CAN'T wait any longer. I've been waiting all my life, & I've reached my breaking point.
& the worst part is, I don't know how to change my situation. I can't approach guys (or anyone, really), & even if a guy I liked approached me, I wouldn't know how to act or what to say at all. The only time my true self comes out is online, or when I'm around my dad. I've never been able to reveal myself completely, to someone. I just don't know how, & that fact is killing me.
I can't go on like this. I don't know what to do or where to turn.