Stripclub mistake?

MichaelAreto

MichaelAreto

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Hello all,

Last night I payed a stripper 80 dollars for 5 lap dances or so and I have to say I really enjoyed it. After it was all over she offered to have sex with me for an extra 60 and I drunkenly agreed. I gave her the money in advance and she's supposed to come over tonight, but I dont know if I want to go through with it now. this is a big deal to me since i'm a 24 year old virgin (not by choice) and this seems weird, but tempting. I've gotten the feeling that no matter what I do I will never be able to have a relationship with a woman due to my SA, and this may be my only chance to have sex. I have to admit things were somewhat awkward with this dancer (despite how nice it was I still felt odd at times) and I'm sure she would have run off if it weren't for my pocketbook. I wonder if I should go through with this or just cancel and eat the 60 bucks?
 
The-Widowmaker

The-Widowmaker

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Cancel. I mean it. The moment you do that you will never be able to change it, and you will regret it. Trust me, if you have to pay for sex thats all pride out the window. You will find a decent woman who will love you without raiding your wallet. Just wait.

You dont need to resort to a whore.

I hope you take my advice.
 
glen108

glen108

Active member
MichaelAreto said:
Hello all,

Last night I payed a stripper 80 dollars for 5 lap dances or so and I have to say I really enjoyed it. After it was all over she offered to have sex with me for an extra 60 and I drunkenly agreed. I gave her the money in advance and she's supposed to come over tonight, but I dont know if I want to go through with it now. this is a big deal to me since i'm a 24 year old virgin (not by choice) and this seems weird, but tempting. I've gotten the feeling that no matter what I do I will never be able to have a relationship with a woman due to my SA, and this may be my only chance to have sex. I have to admit things were somewhat awkward with this dancer (despite how nice it was I still felt odd at times) and I'm sure she would have run off if it weren't for my pocketbook. I wonder if I should go through with this or just cancel and eat the 60 bucks?
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If you feel up to it, I would do it, just to have the experience. You can always abandon ship if you get too anxious, she ain't going to mind as long as she's been paid. I lost my virginity at 28 to somone I didn't really like and it was, well lets just say, dissapointing but I guess I'm glad for the experience. If it has a moral or ethical issue for you, than you shouldn't go through with it. The guilt that this might cause is just not worth it in my opinion.
 
MichaelAreto

MichaelAreto

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Thanks to the people who have given meaningful responses so far, i'm inclined to agree...Though the other posts are just a little too hilariously "edgy" and "in my face" for me to handle. Bad assedly twizted stuff there dudez! :roll:
 
MichaelAreto

MichaelAreto

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tehStranger said:
"I gave her the money in advance and she's supposed to come over tonight, but I dont know if I want to go through with it now."

You sure she isn't ripping you off?
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This is definatley a possibility. She did give me her cell number though and I obviously know where she works, so perhaps not. Either way I've decided at this point i'm probably not going to do it anyway, so whatever. Now I'm just wishing I hadn't shelled out the cash in advance. It was a classic case of being drunk and thinking with the wrong head. I'll call it a life lesson.
 
slicknick

slicknick

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I don't feel sex always has to be so romantic/personal as everyone makes it out to be. For me it was a big hurtle in my SA battle. One more thing I could cross off the list. I think its better to waste the first time on someone you don't care about than to make a fool of yourself once it matters. Just my thoughts.

"If it has a moral or ethical issue for you, than you shouldn't go through with it. The guilt that this might cause is just not worth it in my opinion."

I agree. This is really a decision you need to make. It certainly isn't something you can take back.

...and yeah it does seem a bit strange you paid her a day in advance. Hope she isn't scamming you.
 
glen108

glen108

Active member
MichaelAreto said:
Thanks to the people who have given meaningful responses so far, i'm inclined to agree...Though the other posts are just a little too hilariously "edgy" and "in my face" for me to handle. Bad assedly twizted stuff there dudez! :roll:
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I personally found that getting that monkey of my back, virginity, had a postive effect on me besides the not so good first time experience. I don't have to worry that I'm a virgin anymore and people don't give me shit about it, which is good. But unfortunately it has had no long term effect on my social phobia, which sucks. I still get freakin anxious around people espeically females.
 
Azrael1982

Azrael1982

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It won't help u in recovering from social phobia, I guess. At least in my case, it didn't.

However, you may always gain experience - not concerning sex itself. For instance, as for me, I'm completely ensured now, that sex without love is senseless.

That's just my opinion, though.
 
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IBM

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MichaelAreto

I'm on late 20's and still virgin too. But i dont want to lose it with a whore or a women that i dont find atractive. And dont you worry about how the quantity guys fuck'ed her. Hygiene is a concern to me.
 
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