sexual dysfunction

RND_CHR

Well-known member

• Jun 30, 2009

• #1

I want to **** all the time. I met with my ex girlfriend today. I guess we never really broke up, but whatever. I was trying to sleep with her today but I couldn't get an erection for more than like 5 seconds at a time. i think it's because of anxiety or something about not performing well. Kind of a frustrating cycle. I just can't relax enough.

 

lithium

Well-known member

• Jul 1, 2009

• #2

That's a real bummer man. I wouldn't get with my ex-girlfriend though, she's a whore. haha. I have severe anxiety at times, but it doesn't stop me from getting erections. Best of luck to you.

 

BlackKids

Well-known member

• Jul 1, 2009

• #3

It's properly anxiety. Id say the best thing to do is just try and relax. Also remember that you don't need an erection to please a girl. Make it all about her (which is what you should be doing anyway ) and then she will owe you.

 

Kien

Well-known member

• Jul 1, 2009

• #4

What is a girlfriend?

 

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Kinetik

Well-known member

• Jul 1, 2009

• #5

It happens to everyone sometimes, SA or not. Just don't think about it, otherwise it can become a cycle you obsess about, which makes the whole thing worse. I actually went to the doctor's for this too, but once he told me it was all in my head (which I really believe) things were back to normal.

 

IntriguedOneM

Member

• Jul 1, 2009

• #6

sometimes it has to do with psych. meds. when that happens that can really be a bitch..

 

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dtrotter

Active member

• Jul 2, 2009

• #7

Well, for some people, they need emotion to get their erection. Some just need really hot women to throw them off. oh well, it could due to performance anxiety? just my 2 cents

 

PunkRotten

1

• Jul 2, 2009

• #8

Its all mental , you are burning yourself out.

 

NothingElseMatters

Well-known member

• Jul 2, 2009

• #9

RND_CHR said:

I want to **** all the time. I met with my ex girlfriend today. I guess we never really broke up, but whatever. I was trying to sleep with her today but I couldn't get an erection for more than like 5 seconds at a time. i think it's because of anxiety or something about not performing well. Kind of a frustrating cycle. I just can't relax enough.

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i am guessing that since you have a girlfriend u must have had others times that u were succesfull..so it's probably some stress.it's not something unusual it happens to lots lots of ppl even if they don't have any anxiety problems.next time put some music on,it 'll probably help u relax