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  1. very_shy

    Avoiding public speeches at work

    I feel strangled. I am approaching the gallows. The gallows of public speaking. I work in one the public library units and 1 month ago I was forced (one employee is expecting a baby) to become the unit's "leader" or whatever you want to call it. Not the big issue, some more paperwork to do, not...
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    Working in public places: a chance to find love?

    For the past 5 years when working in public administration and dealing with customers I have come across this question but only now it has grown to the point that-like the ripe fruit-it is ready to be further investigated. The worst period of my social phobia was in high school and now I believe...
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    "Let us find you a girlfriend"

    Ok, so here goes. Yesterday I met former colleagues from work, and we chatted a lot about everything (which means my SA is maybe slowly drifting away). I was relaxed up until one of them (she) asked me about my love life ::o: So after that, my face would literally become red like the previous...
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    The personification of the weather (a brainstorm)

    Haven't posted a long time, but recently when doing long walks I have come across a huge brainstorming. It was about my own feeling about the parallels between the weather and the human behavior. I had to put this black in white :) I had to scratch where the mosquitoes bite me. When opening a...
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    Too much self-criticised?

    Hi all. It is my first post to the forum - I have put it here although it deals also with some shyness and SA matters. I am 24 years old guy, currently finishing study at the university. I must say my grades are successful. However, when talking about my other, "non-scholar" type of life, it...
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