very_shy
Well-known member
Ok, so here goes. Yesterday I met former colleagues from work, and we chatted a lot about everything (which means my SA is maybe slowly drifting away). I was relaxed up until one of them (she) asked me about my love life ::
So after that, my face would literally become red like the previous smiley (you could bake two eggs on it). Anyway, she said, how come I don't have a girlfriend; remarked that she knows her colleagues also being single and somehow agreed and offered that maybe one day she would find one girl (maybe her colleague) to catch me somewhere and so on! Also I discovered these plans for finding me a girl were prepared for my previous birthday, but nothing. :: On my reply (or better excuse!) that I don't know what I would do with a girlfriend, a loud laugh started
To be honest, sometimes I feel guilty in case maybe I wouldn't like the girl or that maybe she will not attract me as much (to be in love with), because I think "well, if you don't like this and this girl, how can you accuse other girls not like (or approach) you!
So, to sum up... Basically for us, guys in late twenties, with low self-esteem, being passive etc. the above friends"offer" would seem like a dream - you don't do nothing just waiting for the others! So what do you think? Would you be prepared if someone (colleague, friend, also it can be parents) tries to set up you with someone of opposite sex? Have you ever experienced it, how did it go?
So after that, my face would literally become red like the previous smiley (you could bake two eggs on it). Anyway, she said, how come I don't have a girlfriend; remarked that she knows her colleagues also being single and somehow agreed and offered that maybe one day she would find one girl (maybe her colleague) to catch me somewhere and so on! Also I discovered these plans for finding me a girl were prepared for my previous birthday, but nothing. :: On my reply (or better excuse!) that I don't know what I would do with a girlfriend, a loud laugh started
To be honest, sometimes I feel guilty in case maybe I wouldn't like the girl or that maybe she will not attract me as much (to be in love with), because I think "well, if you don't like this and this girl, how can you accuse other girls not like (or approach) you!
So, to sum up... Basically for us, guys in late twenties, with low self-esteem, being passive etc. the above friends"offer" would seem like a dream - you don't do nothing just waiting for the others! So what do you think? Would you be prepared if someone (colleague, friend, also it can be parents) tries to set up you with someone of opposite sex? Have you ever experienced it, how did it go?