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  1. rko74

    Have people not liked you cause of your anxiety/nervousness?

    I always worry people wont like me cause im nervous and anxious.Do you ever get worries like this in new situations?
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    Uncomfortable pauses

    Does anyone like talk to a friend and you run outa things to talk about and theirs a small pause in the conversation.I hate those uncomfotable pauses :) A person i met in my class phones me alot, he seems like a cool person and we share a common interest in computer games.He like phones me...
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    I met up with a fellow social anxiety sufferer today

    Ayla and myself met up in the city at a coffee shop today.I was really nervous allthough it probably didnt show.We didnt know what still in my shell looked like so we had a hard time finding her.Ayla asked a few people if they were still in a shell.Im really amazed i went and did this today and...
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    What do you say when people see you fearful/nervous?

    When a person sees your uncomfortable, fearful, very nervous, and they say to you why are you so cared at the world etc.What do you say to them? I remember one time i was doing a employment program and one guy said why are are you so scared at everything.I was really taken aback at what he...
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    Has anyone ever felt like an overwelming sense of fear come?

    Today at my class when they all went to get coffee and a tiny cake from the table i felt like a sense of fear come over me, like extreme nervousness.Best words i can describe it like you wanted to find a hole and crawl in 8O :oops: Is this normal for people with social phobia? :( I guess the...
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    I turned 32 today :)

    Man im getting old hehe, my mum told the lady at the newstart class it was my birthday.I didnt know and at the end of it, they sang happy birthday to me.LOL it was nice of them, but i felt like i wanted to run away hehe.I got really nervous like when i went up to get something to eat and a...
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    Blah im not good at talking through the mic in chat rooms :(

    Sometimes i go to meetcam.com and i tried talking with the mic but im so freakin nervous and im always thinkin about what to say before hand.I hate bein nervous with the speakin, its bugs me :( Is this normal or am nuts? I can like say hi and stuff but im so timid with it, not like with typing...
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    The chat room

    I noticed not many go in the chat room much, i would like to chat with fellow sufferers.Does anyone chat on this http://groups.msn.com/socialphobiachat/sylviaplath.msnw website much?
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    Uncomfortable{fear of speaking} in talking symptom of SP?

    I get alot of uncomfortableness in talking and not being able to get the words out of your mouth, is this a symptom of social phobia? I find it uncomfortable talking to people and as if i have trouble getting the words out and when i do i sound to myself almost like a robot or somethin :(
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    Do you fear speaking to people?

    I notice myself im quite worried and to a point scared with talking to people.Like today when i went to my lifeskills class, im dreading the instructor asking me what i thought about something in front of everyone.Also someone in the class shares my interest in computer games, at the end i...
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    Does anyone not like the way their voice sounds?

    I think a big part of my social phobia stems from my utter lack of confidence in speaking to people.When im at home with my parents i think i sound very "kidlike" and when i go out or talk to people i try and purposely sound more adult.Is anyone else not satisfied or really insecure with their...
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    Have you ever felt so uncomfortable you felt like crying?

    Have you ever felt so uncomfortable in a social situation that you felt like bursting out and crying? :oops:
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    Does your voice go soft or lower when your nervous?

    I attended my newstart lifeskills program today again.Today they wanted us to partner up with a person in the room and ask them what would you do if you won a million dollars.They video taped us and will review on how we did and what we could do better by watching the tape.I was really nervous...
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    Have you ever totally went blank in talking to someone?

    You know the feeling someone talking to you and your so worried they will see your "scared" you cant concentrate on what they are saying.The the time comes for you to respond and your mind goes like blank, and you say something stupid or mumble or slur your words and feel like a retard after? I...
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    I wish i could act like an idiot in front of people

    I live at home and im such an idiot around my parents.I got a silly sense of humor being Irish.I wish i could be a silly person around people i dont really know.I suppose i got to know people before i get like that.
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    Do you worry people will think you are too serious?

    I find it hard to open up my personality i have with my parents.I love to laugh and joke and just talk stupid with my parents.But when im around other people im alot more reserved and i cant display my funny and crazy sense of humor.I worry other folks will think i got no sense of humor.I guess...
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    Is it normal to put on a accent?

    I been putting on a accent since i was a little kid, when our family moved from Ireland to England.To fit in me and my brother kinda addopted or purposely put on a english type accent.Then we moved to Canada and when we went to school we put on a Canadian sounding accentand when we came home to...
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    Going to start this life skills course next week

    Well im gonna start this life skills class thing next tuesday, im nervous about it.Namely i hope i dont come out of it and stick with it , can you all send me good thoughts and vibes my way please? hehe
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    Hvae you ever met a fellow social phobia sufferer?

    If so how was the experience? I bet you thought they didnt seem like they had social phobia eh.I look through alot of the member photos and alot of people dont look like they have this issue.I guess people dont have a big stamp on their head lol.
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    Isnt there a support group for social phobia in Edmonton ?

    Just curious, isnt there one in the uni somewhere?
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