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I was wondering...........how many people manage to live away at college? For me, a twenty minute commute and living at home is hard enough. So, how do you function in the college environment? lol, I know I haven't made any friends and that's the way I want it....I think. :? but I always feel...

I was watching something about chimpanzee society on TV and I started wondering. I'm no scientist, so cut me some slack before I begin :D I figure it must be an evolutionary defect. My tentative theory: Our ancestors quickly learned that social encounters were important because you could...

moderators, I would greatly appreciate it if you could delete all my pictures that are in the Members catagory of the photo album. I think there are two of them. Sorry for the trouble. ~thequietone

I think I am the fastest learner on the planet. That's all avoidance really is. Anytime something bad happens to me, I avoid that situation and all situations relating to it Forever. Sorry if I'm being a downer, I just have to get it out. :oops: I never want to get close to anyone again...

Don't feel obliged to respond, but I was wondering... :roll: How many people here have sought professional help for our condition(s)? Do you see a therapist? How hard is it for you to do so if this is the case? What about medication? Do these things really help you? If so, why? What are your...

I've been in a rut all this year, and I've read self-help books bought the stupid audio CDs, revisited my shrink, got on Prozac, had weekly psychotherapy...heck, I even tried hypnosis, but it turns out I'm too high strung to be hypnotized. lol. :) I started cutting, forced myself to stop...

For someone with SA, is it bad to go looking for someone? or should you fix yourself mentally first? Does being in a relationship give you the needed confidence?

When my mind is IDLE. Before bed. While driving (dangerous). What about you?

This probably sounds weird, but I am almost envioius of people who are completely friendless. It would be so much easier. No ties! No guilt! (Yes I am avoidant) Granted, I have maybe two friends, loyal, cheerful, persistent, and confused by my behavior. I feel the pain of being an outsider...