People finishing what you're doing...

Kathryn.fr

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This happens a lot to me, I know that I take a LONG time to decide on something, it takes me forever to unlock my front door, or even put my flip flops on. I don't really have an issue with it, I'm just a slow person when it comes to actions or when people want something NOW. It does however bug everyone I know, except the bf he thinks it's cute. Sometimes I'll be in line at the grocery store with one of my roommies and I'll forget which pocket I left my debit card in and I'll flip through them all, and she'll suddenly just pull my purse twards her and pull it out and slide it. There's no reason for that, it's not like she knows my pin or anything. 5 more seconds wouldn't have killed her to wait. When I'm locking the door or something and I can't get it done she'll just push me over and do it for me, it's not just her though a lot of my friends and family do. Are people in THAT bad of a rush that they need to trample over me and my thought process. I'm a very quick person usually when I know I have to be. But if I'm just going for a walk to be myself and get fresh air, ya I'll take my sweet time locking the door, I'm in no rush to get in and out of the store, everyone else is already wanting out of that place faster than the next person. I also take FOREVEEEEEER to order, and sometimes if I take more than a few minutes my bf can read me pretty easily if I have no idea what I want and he'll do it for me. I don't mind that I guess though. I just hate when people have to cut me off to do my sh*t for me. This bugs you guys/gals too right?
 

Srijita52

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Yeah,I'm just like that. I don't get why ppl are at so rush all the time.I mean seriously, what's the deal?I as well can be pretty quick at times,specially if I have to be somewhere on time,but otherwise I'm pretty lazy & if ppl have no patience with that,I just don't care.
 

Kathryn.fr

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It just makes me feel so stupid like, "God Kathryn, you're taking forever let me do it!" and I'm just standing there like I've been whipped for something. Embarrassed, that I make people that irritated.
 

WeirdyMcGee

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haha~ this isn't really me.
I take a long time to eat because I like to savor my food-- but I usually know exactly what I'd like. I am the first person to finish working on something... it takes me 5 minutes to get dressed and made up if I'm going out and I tend to make my decisions quicker than the people around me *and* I'm quite patient, so I don't mind waiting.
If someone doesn't like how I'm doing something, they can do it instead. I don't mind for most things.

It's not fair of people to rush you but I guess we live in a busy world, right?
Quick, like a bunny! Hurry, hurry, hurry!
Everyone wants everything done quickly- they want their food now- they want to get there now! Now, now, now!
That's just the way some people are, I guess. They get stuck up on how much time they are 'wasting' and don't take the time to do things properly or to enjoy what they're doing.
 

Srijita52

Well-known member
Yeah,I know the feeling.That's why I try to be less slow around ppl.But when I'm all by myself,I can take as much time as I like.Ppl still call me slow/lazy though.
 
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