Now I have proff that she don't like me!

xnn

Well-known member
Yeah, my psycologist tried to convinced me that there could be so many reasons she just ignored me last time we met. And I believed her.
So here's the story:
A girl from work. Nice person. May not be the prettiest girl, but nice and cute. I like her. She got transfered to another deparment. I met her where she works, walks to her and say hi and starts a conversation. It goes ok.
Next time, she completely ignores me, making me feel so stupid and embarrased.
My psychologist convinced me that there could be so many reasons. Maybe she had a bad day. Maybe she didnt want to talk to anyone. Maybe there where isues at her workplace.
I've seen her on facebook, since she's friends with most of the other people from work that I'm friends with (the few that accepted my friends request).
So I thought that I might add her. Maybe she would be flattered.
She did not respond. I think I've proof enough now. I can't believed the psychologist saying there's nothing wrong with me. Then why I am this alone and feel that everyone hates me? Noone wants to be friends with me.
 

Sacrament

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Then move on, and try to be friends with someone else. The fact that you're so insecure about it is probably one of the reasons why she wasn't really interested. Also, some people only add people they talk to in "real life" on Facebook.
 

surewhynot

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People will usually answer kindly if you engage them in a conversation, but that doesn't mean that they like you, they're just being respectful.

Next time let her come to you so that you know that she actually does want to talk with you.
 

bsammy

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People will usually answer kindly if you engage them in a conversation, but that doesn't mean that they like you, they're just being respectful.

Next time let her come to you so that you know that she actually does want to talk with you.

yes you must play the push/pull game...u have done enough pushing(approaching her) so now just ignore her, act like you have much better things to do..see how she responds, if she doesnt do anything, then just forget about her..if she responds, then make a decision on whether playing this long tired "game" is worth it or not..

my suggestion is move on and find someone else..dont even bother with this girl..generally on facebook, people are not picky with whom they allow to be their friends..people they dont know or dont even like, they allow to be friends to boost friend count..its ridiculous but true..
 

Gieky

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I'd be careful playing some push pull ignore game. If you do that, you still have some expectation of what the outcome should be, and if that expectation is not met, its going to make you feel worse. I do agree with surewhynot that you should give space and let her come to you. If not, it doesn't reflect on you as a person. Not everyone you like has to like you back. Try to talk to people without setting up expectations of where it should go. It helps me out so much for when I'm not someone's type.
 
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