Nice guys and women

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Argamemnon

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I just saw that on another board some fool has posted this. He is probably a troll, but what he said really baffled me.

"nice guys' are not God's gift to woman. In fact they're usually far from it. They're basically the same douchebags that bad boy players are, just without the charisma and sex appeal.

I used to tell myself that women who rejected me were the ones missing out because I would've been the most loving and dedicated man any woman could hope for but it was all a LIE. The truth is I get bored and take women for granted pretty easily. I'm not willing to go the extra mile, I'm not that considerate and I'm not particularly faithful. I'm just another asshole looking to score without the alpha male clout working for me. And they can sense it. THEY CAN SENSE IT!!!

Women, you were right. You were always right. Don't ever think otherwise. Your judgment is usually right on the money. Don't ever doubt it. Don't give us friendzoned idiots an inch, because we'll take everything and leave you broken and hurt, just like the alpha males but without the consolation prizes."


Just because this guy is an asshole (he admits himself) doesn't mean that all of us are. I don't know why he assumes that there are no nice people out there. Also, I think people who despise nice people are worthless.
 
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Teardrop

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Maybe he's trying to make everyone seem bad so his own badness wouldn't be so obvious and he wouldn't have to feel guilty or inferior or whatever.
 
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He says he's a nice guy. Does he sound like a nice guy? No, he sounds like an asshole. I can sense it. I can SENSE it.
 
Lea

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I can´t see anything wrong with that post, at most it´s funny. Even if it was a bullshit, normal person would just laugh or ignore it. In our country we have proverb: "the shot goose cries out", I mean if this offends somebody, it shows that he has some issues with it.
 
Kien

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I believe him. I think nice guys like me and many others are useless to women.
 
Argamemnon

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Lea said:
Even if it was a bullshit, normal person would just laugh or ignore it.
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Are you saying that I'm not normal? :p I don't think it's normal to say that nice people are in fact assholes. It's an insult because there are genuinely nice people out there. I'm one of them. If I had a girlfriend/wife, I would treat her with respect and would never cheat on her, unlike that self-proclaimed "asshole", who admits that he's treating women badly or taking advantage of them.
 
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Argamemnon

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Kien said:
I believe him. I think nice guys like me and many others are useless to women.
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He argues that all guys will cheat on their girlfriends etc. which is nonsense. There is at least one person who wouldn't do such things; me ;)
 
freestylemonster

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If I had a girlfriend she'd be a Godess to me and I'd NEVER consider cheating on her!! This guy is completely wrong! There are really nice guys out there who aren't assholes
 
Kien

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Argamemnon said:
He argues that all guys will cheat on their girlfriends etc. which is nonsense. There is at least one person who wouldn't do such things; me ;)
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Well the cheat thought might be less in nice guys yes. I thught more that nice guys aren't what women find interresting.

Anyway I think few men wouldn't like to just f*** every pretty girl they see in life whenever they want to.
 
LostViking

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He's not "wrong", but as someone mentioned, the post is poorly written with too much shouting and anger. We don't know if the guy ever was a nice guy though, or if he just perceived himself as one for some reason, or if this "I'm a badguy"-thing is just his way of coping by having made himself "evil" and somehow less "weak" through that.

In any case, if you don't feel you're an asshole then there's no reason to panic and think "Maybe I am one after all". If you end up in the same position as him and have a girlfriend, then eh.. Who knows? It's all up to you, just because he made some "bad" choices doesn't mean anyone else have to.
 
Lea

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Argamemnon said:
Are you saying that I'm not normal? :p I don't think it's normal to say that nice people are in fact assholes. It's an insult because there are genuinely nice people out there. I'm one of them. If I had a girlfriend/wife, I would treat her with respect and would never cheat on her, unlike that self-proclaimed "asshole", who admits that he's treating women badly or taking advantage of them.
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I never said you were an asshole - that´s what you say about yourself. You started this thread and got angry at that guy as if he was criticising YOU, you personally, which he wasn´t. Nobody says you´re an asshole, but you still keep creating discussions and taking personally things that were even not aimed at you. If you didn´t, nobody would notice there is something wrong with you. But the fact that you do this, points out at that you probably have some issues.
 
Argamemnon

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Lea said:
I never said you were an asshole - that´s what you say about yourself.
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I have never said that I was an asshole, I always say that I'm a nice person.

You started this thread and got angry at that guy as if he was criticising YOU, you personally, which he wasn´t. Nobody says you´re an asshole, but you still keep creating discussions and taking personally things that were even not aimed at you. If you didn´t, nobody would notice there is something wrong with you. But the fact that you do this, points out at that you probably have some issues.
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No, he is insulting people, he accuses them of being "assholes" like himself. He should speak for himself, the fact that he loves treating women like sh*t, or whatever it is he enjoys doing is HIS problem, not "ours". Also, I'm free to create any discussion I want; I don't need your permission...
 
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LostViking

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He's just projecting his own flaws onto other people (ie. everyone who are "nice" guys). It's nothing to feel insulted about unless you have a lingering fear you may end up like him.
 
Argamemnon

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I don't feel insulted, I know I'm "nice". I just think it's incredibly stupid and wrong to say such things.
 
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the guy is right from one side ::p: the more you get in your life the more you want,because people change every day and if you met someone who you liked and love,it doesnt mean that you will spend all your life with him/her thats why you hear,see stories of people breaking up ,cheating especially tennagers because its a normal routine for them,except when you get older people have to take more responsibilities for the things they do because most of them are married have children and etc,and it doesnt mean or have to be that someone shy or with SA gonna be a perfect man for a woman because we are not different from the rest.
 
LostViking

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I can see where you're coming from. But judging by the words he's choosing I'd say he's just venting. And all of us do that now and then. If he had explained how he had deduced all "nice" guys are assholes according to his empirical evidence, and did so in a less pissy manner, then you could probably feel a bit insulted.
 
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