New abnormal girl
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Pink_Paula
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Hiya, welcome to SPW.
It's really good that you're able to push yourself and continue to be social, it's hard to do that especially when you have doubts about who you are and stuff.
Anyway i hope you like it here
It's really good that you're able to push yourself and continue to be social, it's hard to do that especially when you have doubts about who you are and stuff.
Anyway i hope you like it here
Flowers-Of-Bloom
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Welcome, thao87. =)
I tried being 'normal' once, though it never worked out for me. Perhaps you'll have more luck in that department.
I tried being 'normal' once, though it never worked out for me. Perhaps you'll have more luck in that department.
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I_jailed_me
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Hi all,
I'm currently living in Australia and I've recently realized that the way I act and feel at certains times, for all my life, are symtoms of S.A.D so I decided to look more into it, self diagnosed myself and found this forum.
Apart from having SA I have physical/appearance issues too which makes me even more abnormal. It also limits my chances of being in a relationship even more.
But even though I have SA I constantly push myself to interact with people and make friends. I have managed to make some friends in the past and have met a lot of great people but I just can't seem to keep the friendship or even have a truly close friend which is such a pity.
I always have an urge to be normal so I psych myself up to be confident and it might last for abit but I fizzle out eventually XD. If someone talks to me I will talk back and try to not appear uncomfortable. Sometimes I succeed and feel proud of myself but sometimes I just fail and sense that they know I feel uncomfortable. So I probably come across intimidating to talk to even though I'm considered to be nice.
I also find it weird that for a rational person I could be so irrational haha.
Anyways, ill leave it here and thanx for reading
Its very normal to feel this way not everyone is meant to talk like Arnold on steroids! We are unique in our own way so dont bother to much about it, if you worry you will make it worse.
If this is life then what is there to be fearful or embraced about?
Pink_Paula
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Thanx for the welcomes
Yeh I just feel that trying to be normal is closer to being normal and feeling normal then not trying at all. I just still hate the feeling before attempting to interact and the feeling of having embarrassed myself somehow afterwards. I do dwell on bad moments for a while, but thank goodness for the ability to forget things or else I would feel horrible a lot just thinking about it.
Yeah i know what you mean, it would be nice to just go out without thinking about it and getting stressed, but you're doing good a lot of people can't push through that fear, i know it's still horrible having to work yourself up beforehand, but at least you can do it
Falkor
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Hi!!
Welcome Here!!
I think we all wanna look normal, but yeah.. we do have issues, so it's kinda hard.
I also think I look abnormal, but hey. it's just our thought right !
Maybe someone else thinks youre cool ::
So if you don't believe in yourself anyone else would
never give up !
Have a good time on Spw!
Welcome Here!!
I think we all wanna look normal, but yeah.. we do have issues, so it's kinda hard.
I also think I look abnormal, but hey. it's just our thought right !
Maybe someone else thinks youre cool :
:So if you don't believe in yourself anyone else would
never give up !
Have a good time on Spw!