Need perspective in a relationship

MercySparx

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Uhh well you definately shouldn't have gotten physically violent with him. To me she sounds like a bit of a drama queen. She seems to enjoy conflict, from what you've shared she seems extremely immature and ego-centric. If he were harrassing her, it would be more understandable why she would be upset. He still sounds like a dick though. I know I have never asked a boyfriend to fight my battles. I think you may be better off.
 

MikeyC

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I think you may be better off.
From the story there, I agree. Even if she didn't bring you into this one, how long until she does when there's another conflict? The two of you had different ways of resolving issues and she thought that was enough to end the relationship. I can't imagine it would've gone far. Sorry.
 

Mr.Prez

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no... I think you did the right thing. I don't know everything, but it also kind of sounds like she's almost trying to manipulate you
 

Silatuyok

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I agree with all of the above. It sounds like she's digging up drama with this other guy, and dragging you into it to make it an even bigger drama. NO WAY should you even get involved in what is going on with her and this other guy. Leave it up to them to hash it out. There's something weird going on there that is better left alone.
 

Mr.Prez

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I agree with all of the above. It sounds like she's digging up drama with this other guy, and dragging you into it to make it an even bigger drama. NO WAY should you even get involved in what is going on with her and this other guy. Leave it up to them to hash it out. There's something weird going on there that is better left alone.

Couldn't have said it better myself
 
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