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    Any advice on how to deal with a wedding?

    I have to go to an old friend's wedding in a couple weeks. This will be my first wedding, and all the social aspects of weddings just terrify me. I'll know one or two other mutual friends there but not many. I don't know how I'm going to socialize with a wedding full of people I don't know...
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    I gave a girl my # and she put it on craigslist lolol!!

    I suck at approaching women in person. I pretty much never do it due to SA. But there's this store clerk that I've seen a lot lately and I have a thing for her. She seemed cool and she even mentioned that lived right across the street (so were basically neighbors). I finally decided I...
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    What's the correlation between SA and self-image?

    One would think there's a positive correlation, but that has never really been the case with me. For the most part, I've always liked my height, weight, and general physical appearance. I also consider myself fairly intelligent. So I really don't understand why I've always struggled with...
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    This site is turning me into an optimist...

    I'm not great with words and I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way but finding this site has really opened my eyes about the negative nature of social anxiety. No offense to anyone, but most of the discussion here is pretty negative. Seeing threads on here full of people proclaiming...
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    What has helped your SA?

    For me, online dating has definitely helped my SA. Before I joined a couple online dating sites I had never been on a real date. A year and 1/2 later I've gone out with 10+ women and feel much more comfortable talking with women. It can be very stressful before dates but no pain no game...
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