Recent content by nope1

I've been hired for an outbound call centre for a company and I have to say it's STRESSFULL as hell!!!!!!!! We must make a sale EACH day or else, we might be fired if we don't for a week. Getting to talk with strangers to the phone and talking to total strangers is hard enough, being there is a...

And it's DAMN frustrating. I'm 23 years old and it feels as if I'm wasting my life. I don't know what's interests me. I don't know what to study. It's like I don't have the energy to do the things I want. I feel as if I'm an actor to talk with people and that's wearing me out. I don't feel a...

Well, I didn't consult this site since may I think because I wanted to focus on getting better rather than just talking about negative thoughts. So these couple of months, I've been to the University's library, almost everyday, to study for work on my courses from Adult High school in order to...

I think each week, I'm going to create a thread about what people did positive in their last week. Concentrating ONLY on negative thought will make you forget your successes and will only draw you into a vicious circle. So hence my thread: I noticed that we don't really focus on the positive...

Do you take depressants? If yes, how do you feel and did it make a difference? If you used to and then stopped, why? Why didn't you continue? Thanks!

I can't sleep because I'm thinking about a lot of stuff these days. I'm 22. I mean, come on. I have to start my life somewhere. I was always telling myself that no, I'm too old, can't start now because it's too late... if I finish my courses, I'll enter university at a later age... The thing...

These past days, I've had enough. I couldn't concentrate on my courses, didn't know what I wanted to do in my life... I was just PISSED off at myself. So these past days, I went to the University' library and I just... concentrate on my course 6 hours straight each day. For the first time, I...

Hey, just wondering what kind of jobs people here have. Because I'm trying to find one and I have some reservation. Such as: If I get a job in security, am I only running from social situations? If I get a job at a call centre, will I be able to handle it? Will I be able to face the customers...

I just can't tell my emotions. And when I do, I feel worse. And when I don't, I feel like exploding. I just can't have a normal friendship with someone. I need years to completely trust someone and saying what I want to say face 2 face is hard. So I rely on text messages, but that's worse...

Just curious because it's like these days, I don't know what to say... I just call... and the conversation is pretty basic... how are you, how was your work, what are you doing? I mean, just basic stuff... I want to start a conversation but my mind is just blank. SOMETIMES, I feel REALLY...

Man, I'm beginning to hate myself for the way I am now... I feel as if I'm insecure... don't trust myself... I don't talk about myself... I became this non-confident like person who only makes jokes... who can't reveille himself (I don't even know MYSELF!!!!!) I mean... It's like, my life is a...

I posted the question on my blog but... I'm wondering if it will be a good idea to create a wiki about the social phobia subject? Where people can share their experiences, cures, coping skills... I don't want anything from a psychologist, just a resource website from social phobics who...

Do you sometimes question who you are? Because I think my social phobia is about "Who am I", what's my purpose in this life? What do I like? What's my personality? Why do I hate myself? I think I can't be who I am it's because I'm probably ashamed of myself, ashamed of my past. Why Am I...

I just hate the fact now that I don't like certain jokes. I've had too much B.S in my life that I can't just be relax and just laugh at certain jokes. For me, it's like they are always against me and now, to protect myself, I have to respond in a defensive manner. Plus, what angers me is some...

I'm interested if some people keep some kind of a diary related to SB or SA. Because it's kind of interesting to read the daily life of something who has it and what he does to become better. Understandably, if you don't want to post your link, I understand because I too have a blog but...