I was never told that I was good-looking my entire life until I got to here. And, like you, no one has ever approached me (well, genuinely approached me. I have had my chain yanked by girls before). We're similar in life experiences, so, from me to you, allow me to say that you are more beautiful than you think you are and a very nice person to know. We of this site and your husband think you're fine just the way you are.