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klytus

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Weirdo said:
I'm on the same boat, finding a girl who shares my interests...it's not that hard to find one though. There's this neat place where you can find them, it's called the Internet. If you regularly go on a site or a forum about your interests, you're bound to find a girl there sooner or later. Then all you have to do is hope she doesn't live more than 100 miles away and isn't 5 years older. Worked for me twice so far, though the first one rejected me and the second one I don't feel like asking out yet..I'll wait a year or so :p
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Not if you are into certain academic subjects. There are women at my university, but most of them in my subject and my term are statistically bound to fail quite soon, and there are simply too many at this point to know all of them - that is, to know those ones with a promising academic future. And there are only very few women in higher years, which indicates that even less will be around when we finish our B.Sc's, or M.Sc's - not to mention Ph.D's.

The Internet is useless for this purpose - at least for me. I want it to be real. Entirely real, from the get-go. I have no problems approaching or talking to women. It's just about meeting the right ones.
 
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dat cat nikko

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dont forget about having luck and 70% procent of good looking woman likes dumb guys who probaly **** em and leave em anyway and then they complain about guys this and guys that.they get mad if you call em bitches or hoes,cause da truth hurts but they are good,sharp and intelligent woman out there but they are hard 2 find.GOOD LUCK
 
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klytus

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Serafina said:
That's a good attitude to have even if you are very picky. ::p: Aim high, brother!
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Well, some day, perhaps. There is no time for being sufficiently social to meet and talk to enough women such that at least one will be of the kind I want. I let myself get distracted by a girl recently, and that cost me three chapters in my studies. That's especially bad since the final exam is going to take place soon, and I have to catch up with the lectures. The girl was a tease and an attention whore. ::p:

It's not a problem in the long run - it just shows that interpersonal relationships with a strongly pronounced private component can be detrimental if the professional side isn't stable enough.

And pretty much all other girls in my immediate vicinity are absolutely uninteresting.
 
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klytus

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Serafina said:
No one could ever accuse you of settling with whatever you can get. I think this shows that you value yourself. It's awesome that you put your studies and responsibilities first. Maybe you ought to learn how to organize or use your time more efficiently so that you have sufficient time for socializing? When you do find that girl that is right for you, you'll have to learn how to make time for her as well as your work or studies.
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Ideally, time spent with work will be time spent with the girl. :rolleyes: I socialize the entire Thursday. I wake up at 6 am, and my day is social until 10 pm. I go to the group classes in the morning, then spend the rest of the day in the cafeteria and later in some lecture hall. Then I go to the next group classes, and around 1:30 pm I meet up with two fellow first year students - one of which is that flirty girl who isn't interested in anyone - and then I meet up with a group of third year students in the evening, around 5:30 pm and we are being social until 10 pm or later.

That's about it. More social activities would clearly be too much at this point. Not because it's draining - it isn't - it's time consuming. Although it's fun, it won't help me succeed in my studies in the end.
 
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Pookah said:
"Getting and keeping. Fairly different things. The whole business is shenanigans. "
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Indeed. Your buds may get you a date. But YOU have to get the next one. What's shenanigans? Is that some kind of dating service? Boy, they should change their name.:eek:

And Pookah? Your name means "hurt" in the Cavemanola language.:D Did you know that?
 
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Pookah

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Shenanigans just means mischief or trouble. I took the name Pookah from Irish mythology. That's appropriate that it means hurt too though. :p
 
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losttroy

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Wow! So, you didn't know!:eek: Yes, that's what the cavemen dudes on the movie "Caveman" say when they think someone is hurt. I suppose that is where the writers got it from.:)

And thanks for the info about shenanigans, but I was just playing.:D
 
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You live in a foreign country? That's cool.:) Yep. I spreckin ze English only right now. However, I am learning Spanish(Spain's version) via Rosetta Stone software.

Concerning the thread though, I wanted to add that it's always good to try and help those you care about to find love.:) But that can be a bad thing too, if you've set your friends up and it doesn't work out. You could lose both friends. Be careful out there all of you named Emma.
 
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I wished that someone would have set me up with someone.... Ah who am I kidding... I was meant to be alone, whining all the time, and miserable... It's who I am, and if I changed it, I wouldn't know who I was.::p:
 
losttroy

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klytus said:
You would be a husband to your wife and possibly a father to your children. It's as simple as that.
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That sounds pretty right on to me, also! Remember. No matter how ugly, pretty, smart, stupid, boring, exciting, etc we might or might not be, there is always someone out there who will be the same way. Where some might not favor us, that person will love us. They are our kindred, you know?

Everyone deserves to be loved.:)
 
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