Ive been making progress...

Rise Against

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Lately ive been making a lot of progress, mainly because i take lexapro for depression/SAD. Today i forced myself to start 3 conversations with girls that i don't know very well. I diffidently still have SAD because its still extremely uncomfortable to talk... but its getting easier and thankfully less awkward. Surprisingly ive gotten positive reactions from everyone ive talked to, hopefully i make some friends. Im just going to force myself to talk to people every day until I become more comfortable with my social skills.
 
This has been hinted at in previous threads: If you can, get a job as a sales person at a retail store; even just for the summer.

I know it sounds like a nightmare made in hell , but trust me, this helped me TREMENDOUSLY, and others have also talked about how this has helped them. I used to be the absolute worst SAD sufferer :D

It will be tough at first but as long as you stay true to yourself, you would be amazed at the progress you will make. The surprising thing I learned is that even the most outgoing/extroverted people are awkward/get nervous/ say the inappropriate thing. You will also find that it's very easy to win people's confidence; just a smile, and a well placed word, and they will be in the palm of your hands. Working in retail just sets up the ideal situations for you to deal with people because you both will have something to talk about.

Once you start to gain confidence, your whole outlook on life will change, and customers will tell you the strangest stories about their personal lives even if you just met them because they have so much confidence in you.

P.S. I should add that I never took any medication though my case was really really bad. I'm of the belief that medication only treats the symptoms and not the issue itself. But perhaps your situation is different.
 
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SickJoke

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Lately ive been making a lot of progress, mainly because i take lexapro for depression/SAD. Today i forced myself to start 3 conversations with girls that i don't know very well. I diffidently still have SAD because its still extremely uncomfortable to talk... but its getting easier and thankfully less awkward. Surprisingly ive gotten positive reactions from everyone ive talked to, hopefully i make some friends. Im just going to force myself to talk to people every day until I become more comfortable with my social skills.

Congrats man, that's awesome. Hopefully as you become more comfortable with your social skills, you'll be able to slowly ween yourself off the meds.
 

Errordotocx

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Lately ive been making a lot of progress, mainly because i take lexapro for depression/SAD. Today i forced myself to start 3 conversations with girls that i don't know very well. I diffidently still have SAD because its still extremely uncomfortable to talk... but its getting easier and thankfully less awkward. Surprisingly ive gotten positive reactions from everyone ive talked to, hopefully i make some friends. Im just going to force myself to talk to people every day until I become more comfortable with my social skills.

Really proud of you bro. This is the shit I like to hear. Keep it goin.
 
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