Why did they kick you out? Can't you still keep seeing the kids?
Hey Sacrament,
My brother and (ex)SIL kicked me out due to the fact they think I had something to do with identity theft of our dad and SIL. SIL said she just doesn't feel safe me living with her and taking care of the kids (I have since their birth). I had nothing to do with it, and they filed police reports, and then I checked my credit and found things on mine as well, so I went and filed police report and put a fraud alert on my credit. Then my sister checked her's and she has stuff on her's so she filed police report as well. I told my brother I'd never stab them in the back - I mean credit fraud is a very serious thing!
Long story short, the SIL is 'seeing' another woman and endgame is she wanted to find excuse to get me out. I had to show her how to make the kids' lunches, what they like to eat, even basically where the vacuum is. I hope she remembers to feed the dog! I even had to tell her the morning ritual of getting the kids ready for school, their bus stop, etc...so her life just became 499% harder.
Yes, I can see the kids, but now I live 1000 miles away, living with my sister and hubby but a relative told me to get on with MY life - and let the dust settle, and then perhaps contact them. They said I can see the kids eventually, and of course there is skype and the phone but none of us have talked since the move - I left the house around the first of December, so it's still fresh and I hurt. But I have to get on with my life and hopefully eventually, things will come out - the truth - and we can at least mend fences.
But I have to say, my heart aches so bad and I feel immobilized with sadness, if that makes sense but I know i really, REALLY have to push myself to get out of the house, find a job, get my s**t together and move on.