My best friend's been mad at me for a long time

It's been like a few months since me and this guy best friends; back then, he had a girl friend that's also been my best friend. Back in February, 2 days before Valentine's Day; I heard the news that they broke up without notifying me about it and that really shocked me and he dumped her, for me it was a really hard choice to make so I prioritized her first because she was hurt more; him I did kinda got mad at him and the reason why I got mad at him is because I just don't see why he had to break up with her and like seriously like why did he have to do that?!?!?! That was when we had our first fight, I was really mad at him that I can't even face a single moment with him. There and so on, in the next few days, he kept on bugging me and bugging me until he could get me to talk to him-- but I did give up on that because I can't just leave him like that because I loved this guy like a brother and also for her, loved her like a sister. And after our first fight, we then landed onto the same problem again so I got mad at him so we still had fights for the next few times but then the biggest fight was when we were chatting on the Instagram DM, someone made a group chat of about 10-12 people in it and they added me in so at least that gave me a space in my head to not always think of him. When he came up to the subject, this guy had to add him to the group chat in and then that's when we started fighting again. On that day is when we finally came in to a resolution to all of our problems so then we officially sealed our relation as best friends. So let's get to the present time story, we had this project for school and then I asked him when was the due date and he said it's due in "three weeks" but my teacher said the next day so I knew that he was lying to me. Then the next day of school came around; he was then shaking his head at me and I was like:

"What's going on?" I was confused. "Why are you shaking your head at me?"
"Don't act like you don't know," he said.
"For reals I don't know,"
"Why did you snitch on me?"

So then the thoughts came up to me and I was like what the f***?! So then I had to react why.

"What the heck?! Why would I snitch on you for?"

I just don't see it why he would be really mad at me just for that-- and just a little side note that I didn't even snitch on him. That's just like f****d up, I would never snitch on him. . . no matter what.

So he just started blaming it all on to me and all of those snitching stuff at me. He still won't talk to me, he wouldn't open my snaps, wouldn't check his inbox-- nothing!

I don't know what's up with him, every school day that's what I keep thinking about and just for doing that for the school day-- my grades started dropping dramatically but I got myself back on track with my grades so I'm in the clear for promotion.
 

Megaten

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Yeah if I were you, I would from now on make it a personal creed to never get between two people having relationship issues or breaking up. I learned this the hard way too. I dont care how close you are to the people involved.
 
Yeah if I were you, I would from now on make it a personal creed to never get between two people having relationship issues or breaking up. I learned this the hard way too. I dont care how close you are to the people involved.

Yeah that is just one way to just let go of that guy but it's been hurtful for me to get through all of them. I tried my hardest to like get away from this, but I just can't because I love all of them-- I treat every one of my friends equally, and I love them, no matter what.
 

Megaten

Well-known member
No I'm not saying you should let go of anyone. To be honest I don't have any advice for the current situation. I just meant that in the future, if you happen to be friends with two people that are dating to be mindful of that. Since relationships are either gonna last for life or end in breakup, there's that very real possibilty of you getting dragged into a fight you never started.
 
No I'm not saying you should let go of anyone. To be honest I don't have any advice for the current situation. I just meant that in the future, if you happen to be friends with two people that are dating to be mindful of that. Since relationships are either gonna last for life or end in breakup, there's that very real possibilty of you getting dragged into a fight you never started.

Sorry if I just replied to this--

What's really weird is that eventually we ended up in a fight like we didn't talk to each other-- AT ALL but after all that he actually broke down in front of me and asked for a second chance to fix all these because he actually said that, "I can't take anymore of these, can we just find a way to end all this?"

And I actually agreed to fix all these problems, Thanks for all the help-- I couldn't have had my best friend back again thanks to you :):bigsmile:
 
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