hate loud and happy laughing people

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ClovizKarts

Active member
sorry if someone could be offended with my thread title but this is just what i'm feeling right now.

i'm on a southern brazilian beach on a cloudy summer day. it's noon, i'm not happy, depressed and steel sleepy.

also looking this many people enjoying their selfs and me here hiding behind my sunglasses.

the past 2 days were raining all day long what actualy was fine by me, if the tv had any good channel or the internet were working properly.

i am sorry if someone get offended with my outflow...
 
Lamb

Lamb

Well-known member
No judgement here. Being around loud, happy people makes me want to run for the hills sometimes. That setting sounds appealing though, I wish I was hiding behind some sunglasses!
 
BlueDays

BlueDays

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You don't have to apologize about your English, it is fine.:)

Being around loud and happy people can be very difficult for many reasons for people with SA.
I know it makes me feel more of an outcast and increases my feelings of isolation.
Good on you for at least going out in the first place.:)
 
mikebird

mikebird

Banned
I like the comments

Loud and happy can be separate things.

It's also different if people want to share feelings, ideas and thoughts by communication. This is what matters to me. Sometimes people just make a loud noise without anything meaningful, as a lion's roar. Keeping emotion and passion separate from transferring info does happen. I'm used to such loud music environments in open or internal space that we cannot speak or hear each other. This is very relaxing where there is no point speaking. Simple hand gestures to point at a tap at a bar, meaning: "do you want some of this?" or point to a door, eg. 'want to go outside for a while'?

Loud and rude things come out of my mouth when I get riled at annoying people on the phone. The caller does't like it. The reason for that is always when I try to explain important facts to people who cannot comprehend, whether I swear, or remain quiet, if that's what they want.
 
coyote

coyote

Well-known member
i do understand how people develop this mindset

but i hope you can see that it reinforces and perpetuates the problem

drawing boundaries between yourself and others only serves to make you more disconnected

it helps, instead, to try love and acceptance of others in order to start bridging the gap and making connections with the world
 
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ClovizKarts

Active member
coyote said:
i do understand how people develop this mindset

but i hope you can see that it reinforces and perpetuates the problem

drawing boundaries between yourself and others only serves to make you more disconnected

it helps, instead, to try love and acceptance of others in order to start bridging the gap and making connections with the world
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yes! i believe i understand that.

but some times is hard not feeling envy or angry.
 
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