Are you the same way?

[anomicdeer]

For some reason when I think about something for a really long time, it is something that won't happen. This used to happen to me all the time. I thought about something for a short amount of time and it happens. Now if I talk about something it will not happen. One thing... since my mom like to tell everything that people probably dont care about. She told people taht I have honor roll and then they next report card my grades went down a lot. Or maybe if I say I want to do something I wont do it maybe because Im not able to. I hate when this happens.

 

[gio289]

hmmmm thought i was the only one that constantly went through that. but yea, its eally annoying. Especially when its about something u really want, or really want to happen. Although u try ur hardest to make it happen, it never happens

 

[anomicdeer]

hmmmm thought i was the only one that constantly went through that. but yea, its eally annoying. Especially when its about something u really want, or really want to happen. Although u try ur hardest to make it happen, it never happens

Exactly. We need to figure out a way to deal with it.

 

[danstelter]

hmmmm thought i was the only one that constantly went through that. but yea, its eally annoying. Especially when its about something u really want, or really want to happen. Although u try ur hardest to make it happen, it never happens

The way to deal with it is to simply let go of wanting something to happen and instead accept what it is that you actually have. Nobody ever gets everything they want in life; in fact, we most often don't get what we want in life. But, we do get what we need. Wanting something to happen seems to indicate a desire to be in control. Let go of that need to be in control. Deal with what is, and if something sucks, work to improve it.

 

[pandamonium77]

Yes! When i try to rush, it takes Sooooo much longer than it would if i didn't think about it
Like i tell myself I'm going to take a quick shower, and instead it takes a long time, and we leave our house like 5 minutes before school starts because of how slow i was, and I'm late

 

[anomicdeer]

The way to deal with it is to simply let go of wanting something to happen and instead accept what it is that you actually have. Nobody ever gets everything they want in life; in fact, we most often don't get what we want in life. But, we do get what we need. Wanting something to happen seems to indicate a desire to be in control. Let go of that need to be in control. Deal with what is, and if something sucks, work to improve it.

I don't think you understand what i'm talking about

 

[anomicdeer]

Yes! When i try to rush, it takes Sooooo much longer than it would if i didn't think about it
Like i tell myself I'm going to take a quick shower, and instead it takes a long time, and we leave our house like 5 minutes before school starts because of how slow i was, and I'm late

Yeah I do the same thing.

 

[mndigi]

Maybe you guys have OCD like symptoms.