I am predatorial...

no1

no1

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never had many friends, or never had a social life when younger. I've never had a girlfriend or nor have I gotten laid more than twice in my life and it was only with random strangers that couldn't care less about me, and that was quiet a while ago. I'm a needy f*cko which pretty much ruins my chances in having any type of "normal relationship" because I have become "predatorial" and you can't build normal relationships like that can we? I'm talkin about relationships in general. with males or females, with life/reality, with myself. Everything.

The problem is, how in the hell do I find a people who are going to be ok with me being who I am, predatorial and all?
 
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Anubis

Anubis

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You won't. Stop being predatorial. And stop thinking that you need a girl to be satisfied in life. Once you do, the girls will start coming.

It's paradoxical, I know. Life is confusing at first.
 
no1

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Anubis said:
You won't. Stop being predatorial. And stop thinking that you need a girl to be satisfied in life. Once you do, the girls will start coming.

It's paradoxical, I know. Life is confusing at first.
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sorry I know. I changed the title... and I changed the whole topic to just being predatorial in general about having successful relationships.
 
Danfalc

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no1 said:
The problem is, how in the hell do I find a people who are going to be ok with me being who I am, predatorial and all?
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Do you really think your Predatorial? :) That might just be your anxiety talking.If you are tho that can be a turn off for girls yknow.Im not sure if you are predatorial...cos most guys who are dont realise they are.

But my advice would be to treat women like you would anyone else..Try not to constantly think about it going somewhere and just try and talk to them as friends.Thats the best advice i ever got...I use to treat them different because i always wanted to have a gf so bad,and then someone told me...just treat them like you would a friend.:)
 
no1

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I am just predatorial because I want to know what it is I am missing out on. perhaps once I do get it I'll find it was nothing like I thought it was. in the meantime it has driven me crazy just to know what it is I am missing.
 
no1

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Danfalc said:
Do you really think your Predatorial? :) That might just be your anxiety talking.If you are tho that can be a turn off for girls yknow.Im not sure if you are predatorial...cos most guys who are dont realise they are.

But my advice would be to treat women like you would anyone else..Try not to constantly think about it going somewhere and just try and talk to them as friends.Thats the best advice i ever got...I use to treat them different because i always wanted to have a gf so bad,and then someone told me...just treat them like you would a friend.:)
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I never had too many friends, if any.
 
Off The Wall

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for the dumb people on the forum (EG. ME!) who have no clue what predatorial means! Umm.. yeah....

haha, i think we should stop wanting what we don't have. and be happy with what we do have! i have a computer that allows me to come online and rant about all the things i dont have but want! hey im greatful for that.
 
TooShyShy

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It makes him sound like a stalker...lol...i doubt thats what he meant.

Maybe he meant territorial with his friends, like they're HIS possessions???
 
Anubis

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lol, I think he's saying that his search for ladies is comparable to the blood-thirst of a male lion looking for dinner. The male lion badly wants to eat, but his forwardness obviously scares away the prey in the process.
 
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