Anyone EVER infatuated/in love with someone...did they know about your SA?
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Redzer
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Yeah mate i was shittin it and it was the first time but i knew she was different and would understand i trusted her enough to let my guard down and open up and its funny it turns out she is not all that confident herself although lookin at her you would never guess. I'm glad i took a chance cause its made me happy 
x000x
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That makes me feel like I can have the courage to tell a girl how I feel about her someday. How long did you know her before you told her you loved her?
x000x
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Thats good to hear man
When ever I like a girl I'm too scared to tell her. I've never been able to just say how I'm really feeling. I usually just get really depressed for a long time.
Redzer
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i know the feelin well i had it for years and missed out on lots of girlfriends girls i really liked, but i think because i was listening to the audiobooks i posted here it gave me confidence which i need more then anything. Look if ya tell someone you like them and they like you too then great and if not i mean at least ur gaining confidence and experience man ya know dont waste ur time thinkin what might be step up mate and act on it
x000x
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i know the feelin well i had it for years and missed out on lots of girlfriends girls i really liked, but i think because i was listening to the audiobooks i posted here it gave me confidence which i need more then anything. Look if ya tell someone you like them and they like you too then great and if not i mean at least ur gaining confidence and experience man ya know dont waste ur time thinkin what might be step up mate and act on it
That makes me feel really good.
I feel like I could say something now.
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i know the feelin well i had it for years and missed out on lots of girlfriends girls i really liked, but i think because i was listening to the audiobooks i posted here it gave me confidence which i need more then anything. Look if ya tell someone you like them and they like you too then great and if not i mean at least ur gaining confidence and experience man ya know dont waste ur time thinkin what might be step up mate and act on it
which audio books??
Redzer
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which audio books??
search the site for "My Audiobooks For You"
JCS008
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I really don't know if its been love of infatuation in that sense. Assuming we're talking about being in love as far as romance.
I remember my first serious girlfriend I told her I loved her after three months of dating. At the time, I had such strong feelings for her, but looking back its just ridiculous for me to have said that. I guess its the naivity of being young.
I remember my first serious girlfriend I told her I loved her after three months of dating. At the time, I had such strong feelings for her, but looking back its just ridiculous for me to have said that. I guess its the naivity of being young.
Redzer
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Its zero at this stage now man, almost a month i'd say i've been free from it
but i do still hang around here to give support.Well there was alot to name a few inexperence, shyness, lack of self confidence, fear of rejection i'd say was the biggest factor most people would have this issue at some stage i guess.
I told my girlfriend that I had SAD after a few months I met her. She knew something was going on with me, but she wasn't sure. She took it really well and we laughed about it together.
We're together now for almost 2 years, so it hasn't scared her off for sure.
My advice to someone who wants to open up: first look at the trust you have built up with the other person. If there's not enough trust or closeness, then the other person may not know what to do with it.
We're together now for almost 2 years, so it hasn't scared her off for sure.
My advice to someone who wants to open up: first look at the trust you have built up with the other person. If there's not enough trust or closeness, then the other person may not know what to do with it.
Danfalc
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I've been really really lucky,I met someone with the same problems as me.But it was still hard..It's nice knowing they will understand and not judge.
But I was still convinced when we met up,she would not like me,that I wouldn't be able to even look her in the eyes or talk because I really am that nervous around people.I also have chronic depression and im recovering from a drug addiction.
But I decided to bite the bullet and agree to meet which is probably the hardest thing I've ever done,but I am soooo glad I did.My social anxiety is crippling,I have been house bound for years,I cant even go to the corner shop without having an anxiety attack.So I hope this can give people a bit of hope,because I never thought I would meet someone or be happy again.And if I hadn't of pushed myself out of my comfort zone I probably would still be alone and in the same situation.
But I was still convinced when we met up,she would not like me,that I wouldn't be able to even look her in the eyes or talk because I really am that nervous around people.I also have chronic depression and im recovering from a drug addiction.
But I decided to bite the bullet and agree to meet which is probably the hardest thing I've ever done,but I am soooo glad I did.My social anxiety is crippling,I have been house bound for years,I cant even go to the corner shop without having an anxiety attack.So I hope this can give people a bit of hope,because I never thought I would meet someone or be happy again.And if I hadn't of pushed myself out of my comfort zone I probably would still be alone and in the same situation.