I have social phobia as some of you know..I'm off my medication and I'm not doing too bad although I still have issues. Im pregnant and due Jan 2013, I have a few people in mind who Id like to ask if they can watch the baby when me and my husband are at work, but I'm too scared to ask. My neighbor across the street is my first choice as she watched other peoples children before. There was a couple times I wanted to ask but could not make it come out of my mouth. I'm basically afraid of hearing no, or seeing a facial expression that might mean no..etc. Im sensitive to facial expressions when asking for things, also I don't want to make anyone feel awkward or obligated. I almost feel like because Im having a baby, more so I have to get over this. I have to be more assertive and confident for my child so I can get his or her needs met. This just sucks. I'm afraid the longer I wait the harder it will be for me to ask. Do you guys have trouble asking people for things??