It's been a while since I've had a REAL girlfriend, and before her, there hadn't ever been anyone. Since then though, I've been "playing" around with women, and I've enjoyed every minute of it.
One girl though, I've liked her as a friend since the moment I met her, seems to be catching my eye more and more as the days go by. I'm a technical coordinator for my journalism class (I take care of computer stuff/problems), and she's always having me help her with her work. Gladly, I sit down with her and talk it out, and help her, but something about it lately hasn't been quite... usual. Asking me about stuff she already knows, calling me over only for me to find no problems, and a few other things out of the usual. I, unlike normal people, grew up noticing the little things in life. This isn't something little.
So, I've been running with it. I'll hang out with her in class when I get the chance, I'll talk with her, we make faces and laugh at each other... friend stuff.
Today though, I was at my friend's house, and she logged on to her name on MSN Messenger. I didn't know she had an email account, so I jumped on my buddy's name, told her it was me, and we talked for a few minutes, then she said she had to go, but to add her.
Later tonight, I added her and we chatted for... About 3 hours I guess. We talked about school, things going on around school, hair styles, and... prom. She said that she found the dress she was going to wear to prom, but wasn't going to get to go because no one asked her. This... hit me. Then, she started showing me pictures of the dress, and just like I expected it to be, it wasn't anything flashy, or paris hilton slutty. Just a really nice dress, for a really nice girl. Then I realized... I didn't go to prom last year, but I pretty much have to this year. Only problem is, I don't have anyone to take. She's dateless, I'm dateless... hmm.
I know she recently got out of a relationship with a guy from school whom I pretty much hate. He spits chew on my car every once in a while, and one time it pissed me off to a point of where I asked his father to get him to stop or I would take legal action. Since then, nothings happened. She, on her screenname, did have *single* next to her name... obviously hinting that she was single.
So... I'm undecided on whether or not to go for her. I like her and all, but... I guess I've always seen it as having to actually be "in love" with the person before you can date them. I'm not in love, but we're really good friends. Friends who have a lot in common to add to that... she likes being funny, so do I. She was raised in a very strict, reformed, home, as was I. She loves talking, I love listening... I don't know.
I'm stuck... what do you think?
One girl though, I've liked her as a friend since the moment I met her, seems to be catching my eye more and more as the days go by. I'm a technical coordinator for my journalism class (I take care of computer stuff/problems), and she's always having me help her with her work. Gladly, I sit down with her and talk it out, and help her, but something about it lately hasn't been quite... usual. Asking me about stuff she already knows, calling me over only for me to find no problems, and a few other things out of the usual. I, unlike normal people, grew up noticing the little things in life. This isn't something little.
So, I've been running with it. I'll hang out with her in class when I get the chance, I'll talk with her, we make faces and laugh at each other... friend stuff.
Today though, I was at my friend's house, and she logged on to her name on MSN Messenger. I didn't know she had an email account, so I jumped on my buddy's name, told her it was me, and we talked for a few minutes, then she said she had to go, but to add her.
Later tonight, I added her and we chatted for... About 3 hours I guess. We talked about school, things going on around school, hair styles, and... prom. She said that she found the dress she was going to wear to prom, but wasn't going to get to go because no one asked her. This... hit me. Then, she started showing me pictures of the dress, and just like I expected it to be, it wasn't anything flashy, or paris hilton slutty. Just a really nice dress, for a really nice girl. Then I realized... I didn't go to prom last year, but I pretty much have to this year. Only problem is, I don't have anyone to take. She's dateless, I'm dateless... hmm.
I know she recently got out of a relationship with a guy from school whom I pretty much hate. He spits chew on my car every once in a while, and one time it pissed me off to a point of where I asked his father to get him to stop or I would take legal action. Since then, nothings happened. She, on her screenname, did have *single* next to her name... obviously hinting that she was single.
So... I'm undecided on whether or not to go for her. I like her and all, but... I guess I've always seen it as having to actually be "in love" with the person before you can date them. I'm not in love, but we're really good friends. Friends who have a lot in common to add to that... she likes being funny, so do I. She was raised in a very strict, reformed, home, as was I. She loves talking, I love listening... I don't know.
I'm stuck... what do you think?