tottenhamhotspur
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I just got out of counselling over an issue that I am having a very hard time forgiving myself for.
I want to see if what I did would be forgiven, generally, particularly with an explaination and proper apology. In breif, I made an akward move on a woman years ago and kissed her on a bar patio, and touched her butt under her pants very breifly. I feel horrible about what a I did- though I have no idea if she was as offended- or offended at all- as I lead myself to beleive.
Essentially, I know that what I did was wrong, and at the very least immature and stupid. It was a product of curiousity, inexperince and alcohol, and though these are not excuses, I want to ensure that my actions were not meant to be harmful or malicious. I was going through a phase where I thought I might be afriad of physical connections with people because I had so few- and felt that perhaps those that went out and got those experiences were better off for it. I didn't know what or how I was going into it. I did the butt touch, I beleive, because it happened (with both parties) on a rare earlier occasions years ago. I guess it brought me back to that.
Would you forgive someone if they did this, particularly if they told you what I did?
I just want to be sure that I am not a monster or terrible, horrible person. I acknowledge my mistake and am sorry for it.
you can read the WHOLE long story here if you are so inclined (Yahoo! Canada Answers - Any advice untill I return to therapy in the morning?)
I want to see if what I did would be forgiven, generally, particularly with an explaination and proper apology. In breif, I made an akward move on a woman years ago and kissed her on a bar patio, and touched her butt under her pants very breifly. I feel horrible about what a I did- though I have no idea if she was as offended- or offended at all- as I lead myself to beleive.
Essentially, I know that what I did was wrong, and at the very least immature and stupid. It was a product of curiousity, inexperince and alcohol, and though these are not excuses, I want to ensure that my actions were not meant to be harmful or malicious. I was going through a phase where I thought I might be afriad of physical connections with people because I had so few- and felt that perhaps those that went out and got those experiences were better off for it. I didn't know what or how I was going into it. I did the butt touch, I beleive, because it happened (with both parties) on a rare earlier occasions years ago. I guess it brought me back to that.
Would you forgive someone if they did this, particularly if they told you what I did?
I just want to be sure that I am not a monster or terrible, horrible person. I acknowledge my mistake and am sorry for it.
you can read the WHOLE long story here if you are so inclined (Yahoo! Canada Answers - Any advice untill I return to therapy in the morning?)