Worst thing somebody has ever said to you.

[Y]

"You're boring really, even Murat is more fun than you" (And Murat was a mute, well he could speak but VERY rarely, and i was pretty chatty at that time)

I had changed my hairstyle and went to schhol excited what people were gonna say, i saw a guy near school entrance he said,

"You think you look good with that hair dont u? Lol, no hair can make you look good. Do you ever look at the mirror?"

If i heard something like that now, i think id run away and cry all day, but i was much more powerful at the time. I ignored him and went to class...

 

[Tryin]

Oh sweethearts. I just read all this posts. People can be so cruel, cant they? My parents also tell similar things to me. And it hurts, it always does. Even if I know they dont really mean it, that theyre just angry or something. Even if I know it doesnt really matter what other people think, even if I know I am probably only overvalueing their words. It always hurts.

 

[Lotrsfan]

I remember someone saying to some other people whilst i was there.
"Don't worry, Georgina's got a sore throat?"

he didn't say that he said that because i wasn't talking, but i knew perfectly well that that's why he said it. OK, i wasn't talking, but i do suffer from Social Phobia but he didn't have to say that. Some of you people will think, oh that's not so bad. But to me it made me feel uncomfortable and sad

 

[TAMPA-BAY]

After months of trying to be a sales person selling underground real estate(burial plots) I was the only person who was not making any sales even tho i was on the phone all day making sales calls.

I finally told my boss i was quitting because the job was not working out but his reply was
" You are at a point where you should be a man but you're still a little boy"

I've heard a lot of insults throught out my life time....but that one phrase stuck me like a knife. I have always been a very mature person compared to my peers. I just didn't talk much.

It took me years to get over that coment because back then; I was lost. I never even heard of Social Phobia.

10 years later I can still remember that coment as tho it was said yesterday. Luckly these days I've become a lot more militant after a life time of war with the mainstreamers. We didnt start it but if you keep kicking a dogs cage sooner or later its.....

 

[Higolo]

The worse comment i've had it, "why are you so ugly?".
Funny shit though, 'cause i'm not

I think that boy said that 'cause i was taking the piss out of him, but.. yeah.

P.S. He stole my iPod, that's why i was taking the piss out of him. Just in case any of you thought i was a bully.

 

[red_reagel]

Yeah, reading all of these posts makes me sad. Some people are mean, but they'll get what they deserve, sometime, right? :twisted: Anyways here's another by my own family:

"Henrietta is not pretty at all."- by my distant Grandmother when I was younger.

"Mom, do i really look like Henrietta? ewww! I wanna change my face if I do." (or something like that) by my older brother when I was younger also.

Well, at least we all have eachother, right?

 

[Shonen_Yo]

One of my brothers, "You remind me a lot of your dad." My dad then proceds to look disgusted and shrug.

 

[mad_mad_woman]

My auntie - Your lucky that a guy is even interested in you.

A girl at school - I hate you, everybody hates you, you're a hatey person

p.s That bubble gum clip is so adorable cutefluffykitten

 

[Higolo]

Once a girl kept looking at me, and even when i looked at her she kept staring.

Must think i'm ugly

BTW, i know this is kinda off-topic :wink:

 

[Brad38]

When I told my colleagie of my date(actually between you and me, my first date a few weeks back) His reply "hold onto her because it is rare you will find women like that. translation= its rare you`ll find women who likes you.

I have more self esteem now and see right through him. Hes like a school yard bully booasting his own insecurities.

 

[Lance]

Why do you guys care what others think of you? It doesnt matter. You all need to stand up for yourselves. Ive never really had the problem of others making fun of me, cuz they knew i would kick their teeth in. I don't really even consider myself shy, i just don't have much to say. I accept being a quiet person, theres nothing wrong with it. Believe me, the people that never shut up are a hell of a lot more annoying then the quiet ones. If i wanted to say something I would. Believe me, if i heard the people say some of the things they said to you guys, i would get right in their face and make them feel like a scared little coward. I guess what im trying to say is don't worry about others opinions, who cares about them?, if they say something bad about you they are obviously immature. Just accept yourself the way you are, if you want to change then change. You only live once.

 

[All_life_will_end]

my youth leader at church told me I was an embarrassment and should end my life

"show me on the doll where he touched you"


^^ignore that if you are not cathlic


Seriously though, so many religious people are such assholes, which is partly why I became atheist/agnostic.

 

[Scottish_Player]

"show me on the doll where he touched you"


^^ignore that if you are not cathlic

Why start slagging peoples religion? iam catholic and find that quite offensive, does that mean all muslims are suicide bombers?

 

[All_life_will_end]

"show me on the doll where he touched you"


^^ignore that if you are not cathlic

Why start slagging peoples religion? iam catholic and find that quite offensive, does that mean all muslims are suicide bombers?

I'm sorry, There are some good priests out there, But in general I have had very bad experinces with them. Some of the means't things ever said to me came from "religious-ed" teachers, which is part of the reason I am so opinionated.


Warning: (US) politics; if you offended easily then do not read further.



I am a pacifist and I feel that a big part of the reason bush the president is because of the catholic church's "right to life" policy. If the "right to lifers" did not vote for him because of their religion(not all are catholic, but the majority are) then we would not have bush as our president and we wouldn't be fighting this horrid war. I do not have any problems the "right to life" belif; however I do have a major problem with this war, and the direction that Bush is taking our county.

"Christmases: the only religious Holiday that is also a national holiday so all the Christin's can go home and celibrate while the rest of us reflect on the true meaning of separation of church and state."

 

[Y]

"show me on the doll where he touched you"


^^ignore that if you are not cathlic

Why start slagging peoples religion? iam catholic and find that quite offensive, does that mean all muslims are suicide bombers?

Lol, yeah, i for one am not a suicide bomber.

 

[ozkr]

Why do you guys care what others think of you? It doesnt matter. You all need to stand up for yourselves. Ive never really had the problem of others making fun of me, cuz they knew i would kick their teeth in. I don't really even consider myself shy, i just don't have much to say. I accept being a quiet person, theres nothing wrong with it. Believe me, the people that never shut up are a hell of a lot more annoying then the quiet ones. If i wanted to say something I would. Believe me, if i heard the people say some of the things they said to you guys, i would get right in their face and make them feel like a scared little coward. I guess what im trying to say is don't worry about others opinions, who cares about them?, if they say something bad about you they are obviously immature. Just accept yourself the way you are, if you want to change then change. You only live once.

I've heard it a lot of times before, and I'm pretty sure that what you said makes sense to a lot of people here, but you have to understand that social phobia distorts it really bad,and that's where some of our problems lie.
I often look at myself in the mirror and think "I'm normal, and even if other people don't think I am , I shouldn't care about what they think anyway" But once I go outside, one little interaction with someone else might be all it takes for my anxiety to start kicking in and my insecurity and fear of screwing up and be embarrased occupy my mind ,making my positive thoughts completely irrational and making the idea that something must be wrong with me make sense and nothing will make me feel otherwise until I'm out of the situation that made me feel bad in the first place.

 

[Moonie]

After reading some of these posts, I'd say people weren't so mean to me.. But here are some things that hurt:

Being called a "mute" or "mime." I don't even like to hear those words now.

Being called stupid. I can recall 3 occasions when kids have called me stupid. I didn't understand it.

In 6th grade we had to pick a career and do a project on it. Well, there were only a few crummy ones left and a speech therapist. I chose speech therapy, because it was the best of the choices. And a girl said, "Why did you pick speech therapy? You need it." And then another girl chimed in, "She's not trying to be mean, she was just telling you."

In college, my BF (now ex) once said, "I know that you have a personality down there somewhere. I have seen it when you were drunk."

In 12th grade we had to perform a little skit in English class. When my teacher announced the group some punk was like, "I am not working with INSERT MY FIRST AND LAST NAME" ..She doesn't talk!" My teacher tried to keep him in the group, but he just wouldn't have it I guess. That was the one time that I almost cried at school, in front of my classmates. Even the other people in my group was like "What a jerk! Forget about him" I managed not to cry, but I think the class after that we watched a movie and it was dark, so I think I did then.

There are many more things I could add or think more about, but I don't wanna anymore..

 

[papergiraffe]

The worst was in school when I sat next to a guy who I'd have to work with on projects.

Everytime I said something to help (he would never let me write - "you have such horrible handwriting for a girl!") he would tell me to shut up and say my voice was so awful. And that I was so ugly he couldn't look at me without vomiting.

He got his friends to steal my stuff after class and pull on my clothes and bracelets.

The guidance counselor said, "Oh, he just has a crush on you!"

That's hard to hear when your mother has cancer, you got hit by a car, he calls you ugly in every way & form and when gets his friends to do the same and steal your stuff every day.