steviegerrard489
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Well last night I actually went out with some 'friends'. I put friends in commas because I don't quite consider them to be proper friends just yet. Probably borderline acquaintance / friend...
Anyway, we went to this girl's birthday party and then moved onto this trendy bar full of 20-somethings. These people I went with were mostly people I work with so they basically know my situation: i.e not many friends, shy, no girlfriend.
In all the time I've known them I've never tried to flirt or get intimate with any woman in our presence, because: a)I'm too shy to pluck up the courage, b)I'm embarrassed knowing that they will be watching, and c)I might get rejected by the girl.
For example, I've known this particular group of 'friends' for about 1.5 years but in all the times we've been out to bars and nightclubs I've rarely tried chatting to anyone outside our social group.
I guess I'm just too weak but I really need to find some courage to get over my fears.
Anyone else feel like this?
Anyway, we went to this girl's birthday party and then moved onto this trendy bar full of 20-somethings. These people I went with were mostly people I work with so they basically know my situation: i.e not many friends, shy, no girlfriend.
In all the time I've known them I've never tried to flirt or get intimate with any woman in our presence, because: a)I'm too shy to pluck up the courage, b)I'm embarrassed knowing that they will be watching, and c)I might get rejected by the girl.
For example, I've known this particular group of 'friends' for about 1.5 years but in all the times we've been out to bars and nightclubs I've rarely tried chatting to anyone outside our social group.
I guess I'm just too weak but I really need to find some courage to get over my fears.
Anyone else feel like this?