I've been quiet for as a long as I remember myself(I'm 20).I din't really care about it before because I had best friends who accepted me for who I am.However,after I left my friends and moved to another country I realized that my social skills need to be improved.I started reading literature about social skills and search internet which of course helped to some extent and I think I'm on a right path but i still found myself lacking conversational topics and fail to open up when my turn to talk comes.It is important to me because it prevents me from meaningful friendships.Thus,I have tons of acquaintances but zero friends.
I think problem is with processing information in our brains and with the way we think.For example,I have always less to say than talkative person even If I went through the same experiences with that person.Whether it's movie,trips,parties,college classes,teachers I always have limited thoughts,thus my conversation is rather dull.
I believe that it can be changed and we can improve our abilities to talk,we just need learn to think the way talkative people do.However,I currently don't know how talkative people process information which is why I'm asking you for help.
Thanks in advance,guys
I think problem is with processing information in our brains and with the way we think.For example,I have always less to say than talkative person even If I went through the same experiences with that person.Whether it's movie,trips,parties,college classes,teachers I always have limited thoughts,thus my conversation is rather dull.
I believe that it can be changed and we can improve our abilities to talk,we just need learn to think the way talkative people do.However,I currently don't know how talkative people process information which is why I'm asking you for help.
Thanks in advance,guys
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